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POSTED BY: WISHIMAY
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Saturday, December 3, 2011 6:37 PM

WISHIMAY


Tell me why these "parents" deserve to still be breathing.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2069467/Man-woman-arrested-mon
th-old-baby-raped-battered.html


Doncha think a nice little quiz asking the parents if they intend harm to a newborn might have helped, DT?


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Saturday, December 3, 2011 6:54 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Astonishing.


I'm pretty sure that such a quiz could be defeated simply by answering "No" to the question of whether you intend to harm a child, though.

If it were that simple, there would be no Jerry Sanduskeys in the world. Nor near as many Catholic priests or Baptist youth ministers or Boy Scout troop leaders, I'd wager...


Why do the parents deserve to still be breathing? Because the state is supposed to be more interested in justice than in revenge, that's why.

"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:03 PM

DREAMTROVE


To me? You really wanna? Okay, no. It's not. I won't give you the power to enslave the black race because you dug up a brutal child murder. People kill their children 42 million times a year.

I don't really want to do this and neither do you. We keep it civil here by not calling each other babykiller, so I'm suggesting not starting.

That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:05 PM

WISHIMAY


Yeah, but just asking it might've made them think twice.

State, schhmate. I'M interested in revenge. I'm interested in them not contributing anything to this planet ever again... Imagine yourself in the room when this occurred. How could you not think anything but "do unto others"??


Your tellin' me you wouldn't bash his empty brain in if you caught him doin this to YOUR child??

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:09 PM

DREAMTROVE


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Originally posted by Kwicko:

I'm pretty sure that such a quiz could be defeated simply by answering "No" to the question of whether you intend to harm a child, though.



Mike, in case you missed the earlier disussion, this is at me because I said that parents should not have to pass a test given by social workers in order to be allowed to have children, which is a pretty open door to eugenic IMHO. It was in the thread about the woman with 15 kids.

My point was it's about the authority, not the specific questions, and I thought I gave a pretty good account of how and why it would quickly head south, so to speak, no offense to your homeland. And mine technically I guess.

Anyway, Wishimay missed the point, I guess.

Does seem an awful lot of these in Great Britain. What gives?

That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:10 PM

WISHIMAY


What is sooo wrong with finding a way to improve child-rearing standards?? You have a better suggestion?

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:16 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Originally posted by Wishimay:
Yeah, but just asking it might've made them think twice.

State, schhmate. I'M interested in revenge. I'm interested in them not contributing anything to this planet ever again... Imagine yourself in the room when this occurred. How could you not think anything but "do unto others"??



If I were there, he would be dead, or I would be.

That's why they don't let the family of the victim sit on the jury. Pretty good idea, if you ask me.

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Your tellin' me you wouldn't bash his empty brain in if you caught him doin this to YOUR child??




Oh, I'm telling you I'm quite certain I *would* kill this guy. But I am not the justice system, and I very well might be charged witha crime if I did kill him. I'm saying I'd be fine with being charged, because his death would have been worth it TO ME at the time.

"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:18 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Originally posted by Wishimay:
What is sooo wrong with finding a way to improve child-rearing standards?? You have a better suggestion?




Nothing at all wrong with trying to improve parenting standards. I'd start with the basics, though, which seem to have completely missed at least one of these two parents: Don't fuck your children or beat them into critical condition.


I know, you shouldn't even have to say that, but you shouldn't have to put the directions on a box of toothpicks either, should you?

"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:20 PM

WISHIMAY


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Originally posted by dreamtrove:
To me? You really wanna? Okay, no. It's not. I won't give you the power to enslave the black race because you dug up a brutal child murder.




This is a discussion, darlin, don't mean I like or hate you, means sometimes I like discussions.

Also, I find it funny you accuse me of not reading articles, when it's clear YOU DIDN'T. Kid's not dead, he still gets to suffer.

And this article didn't say a darn thing about race. AND JUST HOW IS ANYONE HERE A BABYKILLER??

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:21 PM

DREAMTROVE


Quote:

Originally posted by Wishimay:
Yeah, but just asking it might've made them think twice.

State, schhmate. I'M interested in revenge. I'm interested in them not contributing anything to this planet ever again... Imagine yourself in the room when this occurred. How could you not think anything but "do unto others"??


Your tellin' me you wouldn't bash his empty brain in if you caught him doin this to YOUR child??



And yet not doing so is necessary in order to date women who might do the same to my child in a doctor's office. I told you you didn't want it. Also, why are you taking this revenge out on me? I didn't kill the kid.
Sorry, correction, I see he's Fubar Bundy.

I'm not sure asking it would make these people think. I suspect they're not capable of thought.

ETA:
1. There's no such thing as a civil discussion about child murder. (or attempted child murder)
2. I read the article. I'm not fond of these sorts of stories, please don't ask me to read any more of them.
3. No one said anything about this family, so called, I assume they're white. The discussion was on the thread with the white social workers trying to destroy the black family with all the kids and the dumb cluck mother who was after all dumb enough to ask for their help in the first place. Is suppose you could call that natural selection, but realizing the state is evil is too subtle a concept for young people so it shouldn't be required for survival.

Just apply some logic to the southern situation and you realize that the same social workers who just did their damnedest to break up a black family would do the same earlier on if they could.

Also, chill. I don't think that feeding violent imagery into a discussion of policy really helps things, including feeding in dead or nearly dead babies.

I'd really like to be out of it before it turns into the mass freeforall than it undoubtedly will



Mike,

oh screw it, let me send this and see if anyone else responded first

That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:22 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Originally posted by dreamtrove:
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Originally posted by Kwicko:

I'm pretty sure that such a quiz could be defeated simply by answering "No" to the question of whether you intend to harm a child, though.




Mike, in case you missed the earlier disussion, this is at me because I said that parents should not have to pass a test given by social workers in order to be allowed to have children, which is a pretty open door to eugenic IMHO. It was in the thread about the woman with 15 kids.



Yeah, I got that. I'm with you on that one, though, and would reiterate that it is quite easy to spoof such tests. I'm sure you already know this, though.

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My point was it's about the authority, not the specific questions, and I thought I gave a pretty good account of how and why it would quickly head south, so to speak, no offense to your homeland. And mine technically I guess.



No offense taken, since I'm not really *from* here ( I was born in Maryland, between B-more and DC )

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Anyway, Wishimay missed the point, I guess.

Does seem an awful lot of these in Great Britain. What gives?



Not sure there's really more of them in the UK than elsewhere. Or maybe it just gets reported more there than it does here.

"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:26 PM

WISHIMAY


It's not revenge ta ask a question.Even a blunt one.

I go commiting revenge, I guarantee you'll see something new...

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:31 PM

WISHIMAY


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Originally posted by Kwicko:

If I were there, he would be dead, or I would be.

That's why they don't let the family of the victim sit on the jury. Pretty good idea, if you ask me.

Oh, I'm telling you I'm quite certain I *would* kill this guy. But I am not the justice system, and I very well might be charged witha crime if I did kill him. I'm saying I'd be fine with being charged, because his death would have been worth it TO ME at the time.




I don't see any difference between "at the time" and "ten years later" strapped to a guerney. Why do they get a peaceful death? When did revenge get to be a bad thing? When the lawyers got involved??

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:34 PM

DREAMTROVE


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Originally posted by Kwicko:

Yeah, I got that. I'm with you on that one, though, and would reiterate that it is quite easy to spoof such tests. I'm sure you already know this, though.


Not sure, spoof?
I know spoof, but do you mean lie your way through it? Not sure I get you.
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No offense taken, since I'm not really *from* here ( I was born in Maryland, between B-more and DC )

That explains the democrat thing. Except for the 2nd A. part. I was born around there as well, bounced around. I might bounce south again. Not sure.
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Not sure there's really more of them in the UK than elsewhere. Or maybe it just gets reported more there than it does here.

Could be. When I read our I'm alwayd reminded of our own anti-muslim propaganda and how these are being used in the muslim world against christians, though it does seem the new dangerous religion for child abuse is World of Warcraft.

That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:37 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Is there a difference between "at the time" and 10 years later, strapped to a gurney? No. It's still murder. I'm not a fan of the death penalty.

I'm not a big fan of the state saying when you can or can't breed, or when you live or when you die. I think those are questions best left to people to answer for themselves if the need for answers arises.

And yes, sometimes it's messy, and sometimes a world with such freedoms will break your heart.



"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:38 PM

WISHIMAY


Yes, DT.
I'm not so young I'm ignorant to the "Absolute power corrupts absolutely" schtick.

Who said GOVERNMENT, btw??

I said HOSPITAL, yanno, heathcare?? As in "caring" about the welfare of people?
If a quiz, oral or written, helps ONE child, how could it be a bad thing?

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:41 PM

DREAMTROVE


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I go commiting revenge, I guarantee you'll see something new...

Channeling Sig there? You used to be such a nice girl.
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When did revenge get to be a bad thing?

For westerners? When this guy showed up:

For the rest of us, when this guy did:



That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:43 PM

WISHIMAY


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Originally posted by dreamtrove:



Also, chill. I don't think that feeding violent imagery into a discussion of policy really helps things, including feeding in dead or nearly dead babies.

I'd really like to be out of it before it turns into the mass freeforall than it undoubtedly will





What better illustrater of the point is there? We've had worse articles here than one abused baby. Why is getting people to do the hard thing and discuss ways to help ensure this doesn't happen again so hard?

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:44 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Originally posted by dreamtrove:
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Originally posted by Kwicko:

Yeah, I got that. I'm with you on that one, though, and would reiterate that it is quite easy to spoof such tests. I'm sure you already know this, though.


Not sure, spoof?
I know spoof, but do you mean lie your way through it? Not sure I get you.



Not so much "lie your way through it" as "steer the results where you want them to go". Most such tests, you can tell within about three questions where they're headed, and can pretty easily craft your answers to get you to the desired result.


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No offense taken, since I'm not really *from* here ( I was born in Maryland, between B-more and DC )

That explains the democrat thing. Except for the 2nd A. part. I was born around there as well, bounced around. I might bounce south again. Not sure.



You'd have to be pretty deep into the nature/nurture thing to try to figure out my politics from where I was born. We left Maryland when I was two years old, and have never returned, so I couldn't really tell you anything about the place, and my folks weren't from there, either. We were there because my dad was tasked to the NSA at the time (I was born two months before the Cuban Missile Crisis).



"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:48 PM

1KIKI

Goodbye, kind world (George Monbiot) - In common with all those generations which have contemplated catastrophe, we appear to be incapable of understanding what confronts us.


I've seen worse in the states.

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:48 PM

WISHIMAY


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Originally posted by dreamtrove:
Channeling Sig there? You used to be such a nice girl.



This is one of those times I'm not nice, this is onea those times I'm angry. Do I have to have a pair of testicles to be angry? Do I have to be nice ALL the time? If I was Mal, and I'd just kicked this "parent" through an engine, wouln't part of you cheer?

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:51 PM

WISHIMAY


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Originally posted by 1kiki:
I've seen worse in the states.



I've seen much, much worse. That's why I'm angry. I want sooo much to stop it. Why doesn't everyone else? Why can't we try harder?

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:51 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Originally posted by Wishimay:
Yes, DT.
I'm not so young I'm ignorant to the "Absolute power corrupts absolutely" schtick.

Who said GOVERNMENT, btw??

I said HOSPITAL, yanno, heathcare?? As in "caring" about the welfare of people?



WHICH hospitals? Who runs them? Governments? Corporations? Are you more comfortable with a for-profit enterprise telling you whether or not you can keep your child than you would be with a government agency saying so?

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If a quiz, oral or written, helps ONE child, how could it be a bad thing?




If it hurts millions.

What would you do with a woman who is eight months pregnant and fails your test? What's your solution? What is the fate of that baby?


And yes, I'm instantly suspicious of any "solution" that brings up the "it's for the good of the children" meme. I've heard it too many times before.


If you want to help children, maybe we should all just pass a law that says it's illegal to do evil. I'm sure it would help at least one child, after all...

"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 7:56 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Originally posted by Wishimay:
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Originally posted by dreamtrove:
Channeling Sig there? You used to be such a nice girl.



This is one of those times I'm not nice, this is onea those times I'm angry.



I get that. I do. And I understand it and sympathize, and even partly agree with you and your anger.

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Do I have to have a pair of testicles to be angry?



I'm gonna go with "No" on this one. I'd say you definitely don't have to have 'em to be angry. Your anger convinces me that this is the correct answer.

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Do I have to be nice ALL the time?


If you were, I probably wouldn't like you half as much.

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If I was Mal, and I'd just kicked this "parent" through an engine, wouln't part of you cheer?



No. I can honestly answer this one "No." Part of me would not cheer if you did this. I think I can safely say ALL OF ME would likely cheer. And if I witnessed it, I might not even be able to recall what I'd seen when put on the witness stand. Or I might remember the guy jumping through the engine out of pure shame. Memory can be unreliable in such stressful situations, I hear.



"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 8:04 PM

DREAMTROVE


You, in the other thread that you dragged this over from, where you were suggesting that first this mother who maybe was a few watts short of a halogen shouldn't be able to take her kids home.

Anyway, who said power corrupts? Not me. It may, but that wasn't what I was suggesting. Anyway, enough of this already. It's among the large swath of stuff I don't have time for.

Is this because I didn't post anything about you in the positive traits thread? Honestly I tried but I really couldn't remember anything. I had this vague memory that we'd had a couple of discussions about a few topics, mostly non-political, and a sort of general warm fuzzy positive feeling but nothing specific. Now I'm getting this angry girl vibe that I think if that was the impression I had I would have skipped responding, in the way that I generally ignore a lot of people around here.

I can't remember what we talked about before. You and I have existed in different orbitals for most of the time we've been here, which admittedly has been many years. I'm only here sometimes, then I find the negativity creeping into my real world life, then I leave, and I suspect you do something similar, because you're always disapprearing.

Ah, here was the last conversation we had, thanks to google.
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Originally posted by dreamtrove:
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Originally posted by Wishimay:
Balance??! There is no balance in raising kids, ALL IS CHAOS!

*Wishy runs around screaming...



Lol. I have to agree. Kids are the best workout plan ever. Esp. in the running around ages. I recent spent a week with four kids 5-13, the running around never stopped. I think they might bracket the ages, though. At 14+ the kids start to have sports without you, and 4 on down there's less running. Still...

But I think Byte meant you lose the workout. Sure, you lose the 1/2 hour workout for the 12 hour workout.


That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.


No portents of creepy nanny states. I think you took that comment a little personally. I just mean it was a creepy nanny state you were cooking up with the parenting quiz. It's gotten a lot creepier since then.

That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.


That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 8:09 PM

BYTEMITE


Usually baby rape is not really a consequence of a lot of forethought. I doubt that asking some kind of "competent parenthood" questionaire when the infant was born would have made them rethink anything about this in advance.

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 8:15 PM

BYTEMITE


I didn't post anything in the positive traits thread. I felt bad about it, but I also figured that I have a pretty good relationship with most everyone here, and that most everyone else had covered everything pretty well.

Also, I honestly wouldn't really know where to start.

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 8:18 PM

DREAMTROVE


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Originally posted by Kwicko:
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Originally posted by Wishimay:
Yes, DT.
I'm not so young I'm ignorant to the "Absolute power corrupts absolutely" schtick.

Who said GOVERNMENT, btw??

I said HOSPITAL, yanno, heathcare?? As in "caring" about the welfare of people?



WHICH hospitals? Who runs them? Governments? Corporations? Are you more comfortable with a for-profit enterprise telling you whether or not you can keep your child than you would be with a government agency saying so?

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If a quiz, oral or written, helps ONE child, how could it be a bad thing?




If it hurts millions.

What would you do with a woman who is eight months pregnant and fails your test? What's your solution? What is the fate of that baby?


And yes, I'm instantly suspicious of any "solution" that brings up the "it's for the good of the children" meme. I've heard it too many times before.


If you want to help children, maybe we should all just pass a law that says it's illegal to do evil. I'm sure it would help at least one child, after all...

"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill



Exactly this. I don't really have anything to add, Mike, you make me redundant.

As for angry people, no, it's not a trait I generally care for. The only one who really gets away with a high level of anger here for me is Frem, not because I think his anger is completely justified, I think it's sometimes over the top, but in part because he brings some much more at the same time as he's being angry, and in part because it's clearly in his blood, so it's a whole package, you have to take the whole Frem or no Frem, there's not like "oh he gets that way sometimes I'll wait until it goes away."

And CTS, gets very focused sort of anger that doesn't spread, it's very tolerable. Byte as well.

PN doesn't get away with it, I just let it slide, in part by not reading when he's angry at jews. I think he's always angry at jews. Maybe once or twice he said good things about jews.

Mike, you get angry at Rap. When the two of you get into it you remind me of Olbermann and O'Reilly, I just find myself thinking that the two of you should get a room. Or a divorce.


ETA: Byte makes an interesting point about another flaw in the nazi parent screening policy, that momentary lapses in judgment like this are random. I suspect they come from the same place as spree killing and probably suicide, not a logical place. These people might well have passed the parenting test at the time.

Sometimes drugs bring this sort of thing on, other times it's some sort of stress snap. I'm not sure this is a sort of thing though, it might be a one off, as the British would say.

Anyway, at the moment I'm voting for Mike.


That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 8:21 PM

WISHIMAY


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Originally posted by Kwicko:



If it hurts millions.

What would you do with a woman who is eight months pregnant and fails your test? What's your solution? What is the fate of that baby?




Like I said in the other thread... parenting classes and social services. The child could be appointed a guardien-ad-litem. These are systems we already have in place.

How about test results get referred to a judge? They get to make all the other big decisions, why not this one?

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 8:31 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Thing is, SHOULD the judge be the one to make all the big decisions?

A certain judge in Texas seems to be a pretty good indicator that the answer to that question is also "No." And bear in mind, he was a FAMILY COURT JUDGE - he's the guy who would actually BE the one deciding these things. And if you saw what he did to his own children, how on Earth could you be okay with him being the one deciding what happens to other children?


As DT points out, I think this is something that snapped in one or both parents (still not real clear on exactly what went down, but I'm imagining some kind of horrific nightmare scene where hubby fights with wife, wife gets in one too many digs at his manhood, and hubby decides to rape the baby to show her who's really the boss, and just to get back at her out of pure spite). Saying they snapped doesn't make it better, or make it understandable, or make it in any way okay, but it DOES make it more likely they could have passed parenting "tests". Some people who are convicted of shaking their babies know that it's not okay to shake a baby; the knowledge didn't help them, though.

"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 8:36 PM

WISHIMAY


I really really!! don't care about the postive traits thread. None of you really know me, and I'm just fine with that. I change with the wind, I am woman-a mystery. Even hubby doesn't bother to know me, most days. Tomorrow I may not be in a murderous rage. Tomorrow I may be worse. I'm still not hearing ANYTHING that could help, though. Other than oh, well, it happens. Which is wholy inadaquate............


Mike. Nice words. I don't hear many. Thank you.




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Saturday, December 3, 2011 8:46 PM

WISHIMAY


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Originally posted by dreamtrove:

And yes, I'm instantly suspicious of any "solution" that brings up the "it's for the good of the children" meme. I've heard it too many times before.



Then by all means, let's do nothing for the sake of the kids...Less suspicious now?


And no, past conversations have no bearing on how I feel about you or anyone. I actually have an incredibly crappy memory and will likely forget the details of any conversation tomorrow. Helps in a marraige, too.

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 8:50 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Wish, it sucks to hear, but it DOES just happen sometimes. I wish I could snap my fingers and make it not happen, make it never have happened, to anyone, ever, but I can't. Hell, if you believe the stories, even Jesus himself couldn't make it not happen - or he could, but chose to let it keep happening.


You can hope for karmic justice, or that these folks get what they deserve, but can you even name that? What I mean is, what exactly DO they deserve for such a horrific thing? What would be a suitable punishment? Torture, drawing and quartering, dismembering, the Catherine Wheel, or more - they still wouldn't be adequate punishment to the evil these people have done.

And none of it can undo the deed.

What I can offer you is this: Use your anger to push yourself forward. Your anger over this is righteous, and you can use that fire to push for change in your own area. As John Lydon (aka Johnny Rotten) said, "Anger is an energy." Make it work for you.

"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 8:51 PM

WISHIMAY


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Originally posted by Kwicko:
Thing is, SHOULD the judge be the one to make all the big decisions?

A certain judge in Texas seems to be a pretty good indicator that the answer to that question is also "No."



Fine, down with judges, too. No one should make any decisions, because in truth, humanity is a disease. Gotta start somewhere, though.

I'm making the decision to go ta bed.

May all the kids you know be safe tonight

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 8:54 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Originally posted by Wishimay:
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Originally posted by dreamtrove:

And yes, I'm instantly suspicious of any "solution" that brings up the "it's for the good of the children" meme. I've heard it too many times before.



Then by all means, let's do nothing for the sake of the kids...Less suspicious now?



Actually, those were my words. DT was quoting me on that.

There is a subtle difference between "let's do nothing" and "let's do everything". We can put chips in our kids, we can lock them up, make them wear protective armor everywhere, never let them do anything lest they be hurt, never let them around other children lest they get their feelings hurt - where does it end? And when you do it "for the kids", what happens when you start telling adults what they can and can't do?

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And no, past conversations have no bearing on how I feel about you or anyone. I actually have an incredibly crappy memory and will likely forget the details of any conversation tomorrow. Helps in a marraige, too.



There's an old saying: Women forgive, but never forget; men forget, but never forgive.

"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 9:04 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


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Originally posted by Wishimay:
Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:
Thing is, SHOULD the judge be the one to make all the big decisions?

A certain judge in Texas seems to be a pretty good indicator that the answer to that question is also "No."



Fine, down with judges, too. No one should make any decisions, because in truth, humanity is a disease. Gotta start somewhere, though.

I'm making the decision to go ta bed.

May all the kids you know be safe tonight




I'm certainly not saying nobody should make any decisions; I'm saying no ONE should be making ALL the decisions. That way lies tyranny.

And I'm not saying "down with judges, too" - I'm trying (badly, apparently, because the message keeps getting lost in the chaff) to point out that you shouldn't offer blanket authority and trust to ANYONE just because they wear a robe or carry a title. People trusting people because of their title or station is what leads us to things like the Catholic priest sex-abuse scandal(s) and the Penn State debacle.

If humanity is a disease, it's surely the deadliest one yet. After all, it's got a 100% mortality rate!

"Although it is not true that all conservatives are stupid people, it is true that most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill

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Saturday, December 3, 2011 9:12 PM

DREAMTROVE


You're serious. When I first attacked the idea I thought it was facetious.

My concept of freedom perhaps isn't the same as Rap's, but I get that it exists, and that it means that we put people's destinies in their own hands, rather than having other people have control over them. I was actually avoiding offending anyone who might be a social worker, but it's just a bad idea. I'd go further to say I think our justice system is probably a bad idea.

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I really really!! don't care about the postive traits thread.

As illustrated by the amount of emotion in this response. Ah well, sorry about that. I just couldn't think of anything to say.

A word about impressions though, right now you're leaving an impression that you might want to think about, not just the anger. There's a subconscious impression which is created when you deliver bad news. As Dale Carnegie put it "Don't open with a story about your dead grandmother, or they'll be thinking of you as 'Dale:dead grandmother."

So, you actually don't want this association more than you don't want the angry one. You'd probably actually have to do it a lot, the way I think "Pirate Jews" when I see his posts.


ETA: I just checked and none of us said anything except Riona. She's like our Marcie Ross. I feel bad now. Will she go invisible? I actually did think of you, but then I couldn't think of anything to say.

I see that it's only been a year and oh what a year it's been here, (madness and hell) you probably caught this, but the year for me started with the doctor saying my sister had a year to live. Now I know a lot more about cancer than I did a year ago, but so do ten thousand other people.

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Tomorrow I may be worse.

Try not to be?

I know this may sound strange, but people who snap actually snap this way. The same people were undoubtedly very angry over a whole lot of things that happened. They don't just happen, this is the only father rapes infant son story I've ever heard and don't expect to hear another, and if there is one, please don't forward it to me. But what I mean is that people get upset over every thing beyond their control and the negativity builds up inside them, and of course they can't intervene in everyone else's life, so they beat themselves up over it or they lash out and attack everyone else.

It's just a terrible idea to take that anger and then hand that anger over to a central authority which is already objectively far more evil than anything any person would probably be capable of because it's consummate evil of all of the evils that all the people have felt and expressed and needed to acquire authority and force to overcome.

I was just reading about our OPA, which apparently is our department of killing children, yeah, we have one. That's the sort of thing that a govt. can do. It can take an idea and turn it into a smoothly running distilled bureaucracy, cold and detached, all two by two hands of blue style.

So, word of advice. Don't get angry. Anger begats anger and violence: violence. Don't get angry or even, get calm.

This doesn't mean ignoring the evil, but that the evil is far to vast for you to be able to contain the anger at all of it. The only way to fight it is first to not be a part of it.


ETA: Don't feel bad. Most of the people here, it was years before I really knew them, I mean, I talked to them a lot, but you get all these responses at once and they don't filter out, at least for me, not easily. A few people came through very clearly right at the beginning, but most didn't, even people I know quite well now. It just took a while before suddenly I knew what they would say or how they would feel about something and I can't really tell when that happened. One day responses weren't just random text, but characters, and I could hear their responses before I was done typing.

That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Sunday, December 4, 2011 1:26 AM

CANTTAKESKY


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Originally posted by dreamtrove:
Does seem an awful lot of these in Great Britain. What gives?

Maybe they publicize it more?

It doesn't happen in UK as often as it does in the Congo, for example. Some doctor recently got an award for performing 20,000 genital reconstruction surgeries. Many of them were on babies.

One story gets a huge amount of outrage in the West. But this sort of thing happens just about daily somewhere on this planet. It makes me sad no one expresses nearly the same level of outrage for those kids.

:(

It is just infuriating all around.

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Never be deceived that the rich will allow you to vote away their wealth. -- Lucy Parsons (1853-1942, labor activist and anarcho-communist)

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Sunday, December 4, 2011 1:36 AM

CANTTAKESKY


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Originally posted by Wishimay:
If I was Mal, and I'd just kicked this "parent" through an engine, wouln't part of you cheer?

You mention this scene a lot. Sounds like there are a lot of people you would like to kick into an engine.

The way I saw the engine scene, it was self-defense. The guy had just announced his intention to hunt Mal down and presumably make sure Mal dies a painful death. The guy has done it before, so there is reasonable certainty this was not an empty threat. To survive, Mal has to either kill this guy later, or he can kill him now, while he's conveniently tied up.

If a repeat sex offender/serial killer threatens to hunt, rape, and kill my child, yes, I would probably cheer if someone kicks him into an engine.

But if it is someone who I am not sure will do it again, I wouldn't see it as self-defense anymore. At that point, it would be revenge.

Then it becomes a different action from what Mal did. The comparison stops being meaningful. I wouldn't cheer so much then.


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Never be deceived that the rich will allow you to vote away their wealth. -- Lucy Parsons (1853-1942, labor activist and anarcho-communist)

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Sunday, December 4, 2011 3:19 AM

ANTHONYT

Freedom is Important because People are Important


"humanity is a disease."

Hello,

There are possibly certain portions of the brain that could be destroyed in a partial-lobotomy procedure, which would have a positive effect on human behavior. Eliminate violent tendencies and any deviant sexual impulses.

Possibly a certain percentage of children who score highly on targeted tests could be allowed to keep their brains intact to adulthood, so that they can perform vital functions that would otherwise be difficult after trepanning.

Probably some time after puberty, men and women could be harvested for sperm and eggs and these items could be banked, just in case the partial lobotomy causes any kind of impotence or unwillingness to procreate. Then, either select women could be impregnated by the state or volunteers from the test-out group could be mothers. These dedicated mothers could be highly trained and carefully monitored to ensure child safety.

If this is all conducted diligently and with attention to detail, it would be possible to improve the race and prevent all of the unnecessary rape and violence that clouds our lives.

Quite frankly, even a partial success would be worthwhile. If a practice even saves one child, it's a worthy pursuit.

--Anthony






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"In every war, the state enacts a tax of freedom upon the citizenry. The unspoken promise is that the tax shall be revoked at war's end. Endless war holds no such promise. Hence, Eternal War is Eternal Slavery." --Admiral Robert J. Henner


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Sunday, December 4, 2011 3:38 AM

DREAMTROVE


Mike,

You're doing an ace job. Everything you're saying here I'm agreeing with, in fact, I'm not saying much because usually when I have something I want to add you've already said it.

So, what Mike said, all of it.


I'll add this unpopular point of view: I think it's essential that children be in danger. If we don't want nuthanger farm, we need a population that can defend itself not so much by owning guns as by having an ability to think and act for themselves.

I grew up surrounded by a lot of danger and without a lot of protection, right down to the going out by myself and climbing across chasms, etc. I mean, parent cringe moments, lots of them. But really, no one died of it, and we grew up very differently because of it.

The real threats to children are things like suicide; a lack of driving skills or good car; the fact that the military is exempt from land use regulations and so all the toxic goop ends up there from everywhere, and if you're on base, you can get cancer, but no one knows its there.

If you have enough innate suspicion, you'll be somewhat aware of what danger is and where it might lie.

Here's another:

I think school is a total waste of time. If a child doesn't know the curriculum already by the time he or she gets to it, they're probably pretty slow. It really only takes an hour a day to know all this stuff, and some of it is useless or inaccurate. I suspect on a couple hours a day of self direction you could learn a lot more.

I don't want to compromise my vision of parenting with that of the state, who I already know doesn't wish me or my children well, as it's already put forth a tremendous effort to make sure more children don't exist, and has a govt. dept. devoted to the idea, OPA. If my children grow up here, the only thing the state will want out of them is soldiers, taxpayers and workers, and why would I do that to a child. Why would I push it into debt so it could become enslaved?

Just one in a long line of reasons why America is becoming a not great place to be a family. Not to mention, once you send children to the school you might end up with "Your child has IMIU, a condition called Imadeitup. Now you will have to them this drug called dontthinksomuch."


That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Sunday, December 4, 2011 4:06 AM

FREMDFIRMA



Sarcasm fail, imminent.

That said - and all else aside, where and how do these sad excuses for humanity come to be, what makes them tick, how can we prevent it ?

See, I have the notion that the best way to answer those questions is to pyschologically take them apart - there's this thing in engineering called "test to destruction", as in testing something so strenuously and thoroughly that you're assured of also destroying it, and yes, you DO find a lot out that way.

Of course, you can't just take some yahoo with misguided or screwed up potentials apart like that in most cases, since it's unethical...

But cases like *THIS*, well I figure they've done gave up any of the kind of sympathy that'd otherwise make such a thing unethical, right ?

-Frem

I do not serve the Blind God.

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Sunday, December 4, 2011 6:18 AM

DREAMTROVE


Frem,

I think stress is a large factor, as is conditioning, and I doubt the conditioning of a chaotic environment causes it, I think you need a hard structure to do this much harm. Also, drugs are definitely a factor in making a lot of our crazies, but the war on drugs doesn't help, I think that destroying the market for crack and meth economically would do a lot, as well as removing the social reasons for doing it.

And don't worry, I get that you get that these people are not genetically prone to inhumanity, something made them that way, and of course, it's possible to take relatively normal people and make them into beasts after they already have children, or are in charge of military units, or corporations, or govts.


That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Sunday, December 4, 2011 11:15 AM

FREMDFIRMA



Shit man, we've known for a long time - just there's that denial thing.
Here, I'll even excerpt it for the revelant points.

WHO IS THE SERIOUS, VIOLENT, HABITUAL OFFENDER?
http://www.vachss.com/av_dispatches/lifestyle.html

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Now, what am I talking about? Who is this kid? What are his characteristics? (And when I say "his," obviously there are female delinquents who also fit within this category. So far, their numbers are relatively small so there's been little focus on them. So when I use the term "his" or "he," picture in your mind that the terms are somewhat interchangeable with "her" and "she"). This kid is characterized by a complete lack of apparent empathy for other human beings. He feels no pain but his own. This is the type of kid who will kill three people on separate occasions for no apparent reason, commit a subway robbery, do a push-in mugging, blow somebody away because they "looked at him wrong." He will show no remorse, and then come into the office of an institution just enraged, veins bulging out of his neck, sweat pouring off his forehead, eyes wild, incoherent almost to the point of tears ... all because someone broke his portable radio. And he'll see no contradiction whatsoever. He simply does not feel anyone's pain but his own. This is a learned response. People are not born like this.

99% of the time that's true - and I fail to see the purpose of acting like it's unpreventable cause of the remaining 1%, which are often used as an excuse to not address this issue and simply accept it.

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The second characteristic is lack of perception of the future. He has none. If you ask a kid like this, "What are you going to be doing next year?" you will get an absolutely blank stare. Not because he's stupid, but because he simply cannot conceptualize such a distance from right now. If you want to speak with this kid, you have to speak within his time frame, and that time frame isn't ever more than a few hours from the present.

This particularly is one of the reasons I am so rabid about personal self defense - see, threats of possible arrest, incarceration, charges, are MEANINGLESS to these people, especially in an environment where the possibility of being able to eat today, of being alive tomorrow, are not assured.
So no, they've no concern about some arbitrary sentence if any, months if not years from that moment - but they ARE concerned about immediate physical harm to THEM, and if you can't threaten it, you're victim, period...
Now take that and apply it here, and this *IS* the mindset we're talkin about, see ?

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This kid does not relate behavior to consequences. He does not see a causal connection between his acts and a response. What do I mean? To this kid, life is a lottery. Everyone rolls the dice, but not everyone pays the price. He has no perception as to how the dice will come up. In his world, everyone commits crimes. Everybody. Some smaller percentage of that number are arrested. A still smaller percentage go to court; an even smaller percentage go to trial. A smaller percentage still are actually found guilty (or "adjudicated delinquent" if you prefer), and a smaller percentage of that group are committed to a youth authority. Lastly, an even smaller percentage are actually incarcerated.

In his mind, everybody commits these crimes. He sees no connection between his acts and the consequences. He is marked by a chronicity of violence, usually an escalating pattern. Violence permeates his existence until it is his existence.


Now here's a point of fact where I not only disagree with Vachss, but with the world - a child tells you something like this, they call it a "distorted worldview" and send em to therapy or medicate em, and that is fucking horseshit, you know why ?
BECAUSE THAT PERCEPTION IS THE LITERAL TRUTH
Sure, there's how it SHOULD work, but frankly this is in fact how it DOES work.
And instead of *blaming* people for seeing it clearly, for not drinkin the koolaid, maybe we should rectify the PROBLEM instead of pretending it don't exist and attacking anyone who points out that it does.

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Now here's the question: is he beyond our reach? If we can't say "No!" to that, we should give it up. We've been ducking and dodging that issue for too long a time. If we face reality, this is what "prevention" is all about. Part of the profession wants to say: "We can't deal with this kid; this kid is (you fill in the blanks with whatever you want ... an animal, a beast, a lunatic); we can't deal with him. Let the adult system take him. We'll work with the good kids, the other kids." Now part of our profession wants to accept and acknowledge our collective responsibility for this kid. But even that part doesn't say: "I'll take him." No. What we say is: "We're going to prevent him. We're going to stop this deadly flower from reaching full bloom." Well, people, that's a joke, a real joke. And the joke is on you and on the American public. You cannot prevent this kid if you persist in starting where you have been. There's a continuum of production that results in this kid being among us. There's a virtual assembly line, with components being attached at each stage until this human being has reached his full dangerous growth. By the time you start to "prevent," it's already too late.

Too bloody true - why you think I am so hellbent on not fucking up kids in the first place, because that by extension often winds up with so-called "parents" who fuck up THEIR kids in a neverending chain of misery we have to break at a SOCIAL level, cause the law just ain't up to it even in situations where it happens to be involved.

And this, THE most relevant part of it.
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Where did this kid come from anyway? Is he a bio-genetic mutation that has evolved after hundreds of years of reproduction in the human race? I hope you don't believe that, and I hope you don't believe that he's a cultural aberration. Or that once the economy gets back on its feet, he will disappear. I hope you don't believe it's as simplistic as a "breakdown of family values." Let me tell you something. He comes from us. He is a product of the human services profession.

I have never seen one of these kids that hasn't been within our child protective and child-caring system for years and years before the juvenile justice profession is asked to "intervene." We have to create the beast. It cannot be born whole. If you look at adult life-style criminals (and again I emphasize life-style, not people who made a lot of headlines with one explosive act), you can be guaranteed to see one thing in their background. No matter where such people are politically or socially: from a berserk neo-Nazi like Charles Manson to a prison-created revolutionary like George Jackson, from the Boston Strangler to Carryl Chessman, from John Dillinger to Gary Gilmour, to Carl Panzram to Clyde Barrow (of Bonnie and Clyde). They all did time as juveniles. Amazing, isn't it?

You probably never heard of Carl Panzram. He was a mass murderer who killed more than a couple of dozen people at different times in his short life. He killed for the fun of it. He liked to kill people. The only things he liked better than killing people were sodomizing little boys and arson. He caused more destruction than a small army.

Finally, Panzram, who was intelligent despite his lunacy, decided he wanted to die. But the state wouldn't kill him. He kept killing, but he didn't die. Finally, he killed a prison guard and ended up on trial for his life. Do you know what lie he told the jury? "I am what you made me. You put me in that training school for boys and you trained me that the greatest joy in life is sodomy and murder. And if you don't kill me now, while you have the opportunity, I'm going to kill some of you. The state gave me birth, let the state take my life." The state finally did.

Now I'm not Carl Panzram's attorney. I'm not trying to excuse his behavior.

Even if I could explain it, he was too dangerous to walk among us. But he spoke the truth. When Charles Manson said, "You can see me in the eyes of your ten-year-olds," that was not an original line. We have been producing the life-style violent criminal for generations, and the factory has been the child protective and juvenile justice system.

In order to create the kind of sociopathic, non-empathetic, violent human being I've been talking about, you need an institution. You need a controlled environment. You need an environment where might makes right.

You need an environment where there is a hierarchy of exploitation; where the rule is "be exploited or exploit others." For many, many years we have run our institutions on a jungle model where the strong not only survive, but thrive. And when the beast is released, we all pay.


And not just our institutions, but in the time since this speech was delivered (that being 1983) we have allowed that environment to contaminate our ENTIRE SOCIETY from top to bottom, something I already alluded to in the Trickle-Down-Tyranny thread - you think would-be tyrants are born that way, that jackboot-lickers pop out whole ?
Really all they are is a slightly more refined version of Lifestyle-Violent offenders who found a "socially acceptable" outlet for their violence and hatred - and that it *IS* "socially acceptable" is in fact what LEADS to situations...

Exactly like this one.

So, and this particularly for you, DT - you really ought to think about the consequences before you go on enabling crap like that by supporting people or structures who are fundamental building blocks for an environment so inhumane and destructive that stuff like this is commonplace.
Even if it DOES mean challenging your own perceptions and working with people you'd otherwise consider enemies.

-Frem

I do not serve the Blind God.

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Sunday, December 4, 2011 1:06 PM

DREAMTROVE


Frem,

First, before I comment, don't clump me together with other people or conflate me in your mind with them. I haven't ever supported this sort of thing, and quite frankly, it's generally, though not exclusively, coming from the socialist left (social services, CPS, etc.) and yes, we also get it from the authoritarian right,(as with eugenics arguments, etc.) but that's because the authoritarian right is a lot closer to socialism than they want to admit.

So, I'll pass that warning back to you. Some of your socialist left progressive allies are more likely to create this sort of thing than some of your christian tea party opponents. Not all, but some.

Now, more specifically. Yes, in part, but there are two other things I have to add to it.

One is an anecdote.

The younger boy. I knew this kid who wanted to be cool and popular, and so fell in with an older boy who was supposedly cool. The older boy abused the younger, not just sexually, but in a weird control freak experiment way in which the only way the younger boy could get the upper hand was by becoming a manipulative raving psycho.

The older boy, in turn, hadn't gotten the way he was by his own need to be in control because of how incredibly abusive his mother was. His mother resented him, especially after a doctor had gotten her hooked on opiates.

The other is a bit of neurology, which you might find interesting and relevant.

The person, when taken as a whole, yes, has all of these rules and inhibitions and feelings that cause him to act the way he does. But each of these can, very often, be stored and active in one part of the brain. Not only can these be lost due to a stroke or other injury, they can also become temporarily inactive under a neurochemical imbalance or intense stress.

The reason I think this is an important factor is that the non-murdering psychopath has had ample opportunity, like the guy in the video PN posted, to control his psychopathy and reflect on it. The person who has only 5 minutes ago slipped into totally psychopathy due to the partial shutdown of his brain has no idea what he should be thinking or doing.

When it comes to people who just snap, sure, they may have some abnormal psychology or even neurology, but also there's some triggering event, and I think it may more often be of this partial shutdown nature than a simple psychological trigger.


That's what a ship is, you know - it's not just a keel and a hull and a deck and sails, that's what a ship needs.

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Monday, December 5, 2011 2:47 PM

RIONAEIRE

Beir bua agus beannacht


I didn't read the article, I don't need or want to. CTS is absolutely right though that this does happen in Africa a lot, unfortunately it isn't new.

Wish I understand why you're fighting mad and I don't blame you, its really disgusting and I'd understand you cheering if someone pushed him into the engine, I'd probably do a bit of cheering with you because that is the same as self defense, that baby can't fight for himself so someone else has to do it, not to mention that if someone does this once then they can do it again. I don't think your anger is misplaced.

I better go read the other thread, I'm away from the computer on the weekends so Sun. evening and Mon. afternoon I catch up on the stuff I miss. I'm going there next to read it.

The only thing is that the kid was so tiny that he won't remember it later, thank goodness, and I hope someone raises him normally and never tells him, he doesn't need to know.
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