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A Victim Treats His Mugger

POSTED BY: CANTTAKESKY
UPDATED: Sunday, January 23, 2011 11:38
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Friday, January 21, 2011 7:47 AM

CANTTAKESKY



Sometimes, we just need to be big enough to be nice, even when people don't deserve it.

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=89164759

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Julio Diaz has a daily routine. Every night, the 31-year-old social worker ends his hour-long subway commute to the Bronx one stop early, just so he can eat at his favorite diner.

But one night last month, as Diaz stepped off the No. 6 train and onto a nearly empty platform, his evening took an unexpected turn.

He was walking toward the stairs when a teenage boy approached and pulled out a knife.

"He wants my money, so I just gave him my wallet and told him, 'Here you go,'" Diaz says.

As the teen began to walk away, Diaz told him, "Hey, wait a minute. You forgot something. If you're going to be robbing people for the rest of the night, you might as well take my coat to keep you warm."

The would-be robber looked at his would-be victim, "like what's going on here?" Diaz says. "He asked me, 'Why are you doing this?'"

Diaz replied: "If you're willing to risk your freedom for a few dollars, then I guess you must really need the money. I mean, all I wanted to do was get dinner and if you really want to join me ... hey, you're more than welcome.

"You know, I just felt maybe he really needs help," Diaz says.

Diaz says he and the teen went into the diner and sat in a booth.

"The manager comes by, the dishwashers come by, the waiters come by to say hi," Diaz says. "The kid was like, 'You know everybody here. Do you own this place?'"

"No, I just eat here a lot," Diaz says he told the teen. "He says, 'But you're even nice to the dishwasher.'"

Diaz replied, "Well, haven't you been taught you should be nice to everybody?"

"Yea, but I didn't think people actually behaved that way," the teen said.

Diaz asked him what he wanted out of life. "He just had almost a sad face," Diaz says.

The teen couldn't answer Diaz — or he didn't want to.

When the bill arrived, Diaz told the teen, "Look, I guess you're going to have to pay for this bill 'cause you have my money and I can't pay for this. So if you give me my wallet back, I'll gladly treat you."

The teen "didn't even think about it" and returned the wallet, Diaz says. "I gave him $20 ... I figure maybe it'll help him. I don't know."

Diaz says he asked for something in return — the teen's knife — "and he gave it to me."

Afterward, when Diaz told his mother what happened, she said, "You're the type of kid that if someone asked you for the time, you gave them your watch."

"I figure, you know, if you treat people right, you can only hope that they treat you right. It's as simple as it gets in this complicated world."



Mind you, I'm not this kind of person. But I wish I could be.



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Friday, January 21, 2011 8:11 AM

WULFENSTAR

http://youtu.be/VUnGTXRxGHg


Things could have gone a lot differently, but I'm glad they went this way.

Good for the kid.



"Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies"



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Friday, January 21, 2011 8:23 AM

WULFENSTAR

http://youtu.be/VUnGTXRxGHg




"Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies"



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Friday, January 21, 2011 8:27 AM

PEACEKEEPER

Keeping order in every verse


I'm sorry, this has got to be a fairy story.Sounds like something out of a film. don't believe a word of it.

Peacekeeper---keeping order in every verse!!!

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Friday, January 21, 2011 8:36 AM

WULFENSTAR

http://youtu.be/VUnGTXRxGHg


Stranger things have happened.

"Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies"



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Friday, January 21, 2011 9:00 AM

HERO


Quote:

Originally posted by canttakesky:

Sometimes, we just need to be big enough to be nice, even when people don't deserve it.


Sometime people need to go to jail. In this case you have a mugger who should go to prison for Robbery, a felony. The victim is also guilty of accessory after the fact.

But, he gave the wallet back, says you, its all good. Kid will rob someone else, maybe not today, but someday. Maybe he'll kill the next person, or get killed himself, and its all on this guy for being too nice to someone who deserved punishment. Good job, I hope the blood washes off easily when it comes, an it will come.

I note for the record that Jean Valjean is a fictional character, who broke his parole and deserved to go to jail. While he may have done some good, his selfishness cost the life of an innocent lawman and so Valjean was the villian of the story, Javert was the tragic Hero.

H

"Hero. I have come to respect you." "I am forced to agree with Hero here."- Chrisisall, 2009.
"I would rather not ignore your contributions." Niki2, 2010.

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Friday, January 21, 2011 9:03 AM

WULFENSTAR

http://youtu.be/VUnGTXRxGHg


Whoah...

Or maybe the kid figured out that what he was doing was wrong, and changed.

It happens..



"Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies"



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Friday, January 21, 2011 10:17 AM

THEHAPPYTRADER


Quote:

"If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic" (Luke 6:29)


I think the social worker did the right thing. I have a lot of respect for social workers, theirs is one of the few positions I consider to have it worse than teachers. That's another job that requires a lot of schooling for little pay and little respect. He's not in it for the money, he's in it to help people, which is exactly what he's done off the job here.

As a social worker he would be used to working with those less fortunate and he probably had the instincts to know this kid needed help, help he wasn't likely to find in prison. I've always believed that in every interaction we have to power to influence things for the better or worse. Perhaps Dias was religious or perhaps he was just an all around shiny guy. Great story CTS!


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Friday, January 21, 2011 10:20 AM

FREMDFIRMA



It DOES happen, hell, given the recent back and forth flaming I didn't post it, but this from recent events landing in my inbox...

http://staging.ctpost.com/news/article/Store-owner-gives-would-be-robb
er-bread-and-40-242710.php


I mean, good heavens, if someone is so desperate to risk their very life for a few bucks, does it not call to your own humanity *despite* social conditioning to blame them for their own misery ?

If someones life is so destroyed that "buying" their lameass sob story and forking over a five makes them feel they have actually accomplished something, plus gets them what they need to survive the day, phsyically or psychologically, and you got it to spare - why the hell not ?

Not sayin your obligated, just sayin, really, why not - not like skipping a second box of donuts is gonna do ME any harm these days, morelike the opposite!
Bear in mind I never do things for the same reasons others do, my religious and philosophical beliefs kinda transcend even that question, I do things cause I WANT to do them, for good or ill.

That ain't to say I haven't met some stone-cold, hardcore bastards in my time, but for a fact most of the folk who have attempted to rob me (and only ONE has ever succeeded) have been fumbling, desperate, and scared witless, right down at the very END of their rope.
And I know how that is, hell, I've *been* there - when you've committed a B&E just to have a goddamn shower, you've fallen pretty low.

And yeah, generally I get the drop on em and if they don't immediately flee, I find the hell OUT what the problem is, in fact that is where the Golden Rope project started, when someone attempting such turned out to be starving and desperate cause he could not find employment as a mechanic due to a felony conviction for checks that bounced when his girlfriend ran off with his contents of his bank account (yeah, young and dumb, I know..) - to which I found him work at a local shop which was failing cause the owner, an alcoholic, was often too sloshed to do the work himself.

So it's not as uncommon as people think, even though in our sadistic, sociopathic society it's seen as rewarding bad behavior - but I am of the opinion most folk don't stoop so low for the same reason they don't pandhandle on their lunch break for extra cash, it's a matter of humanity and pride, which is often it's own detriment cause they didn't ask for or take help when it might have made a difference and stemmed the slide before they got that low.

I do know this, most of the time if you offer someone that bad off a chance to do SOMETHING they can do, in exchange for money, food, enough booze to stop the DTs, whatever, they'll not only jump at the chance, it will give them what they need psychologically to go on, faith in themselves and humanity - which is IMHO, more important than anythin else you could give em.

-Frem

I do not serve the Blind God.

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Friday, January 21, 2011 10:42 AM

MINCINGBEAST


Quote:

Originally posted by Hero:
The victim is also guilty of accessory after the fact.



Just curious if you typed that with a straight face, is all.

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Friday, January 21, 2011 10:53 AM

WULFENSTAR

http://youtu.be/VUnGTXRxGHg


Im sure he did.



"Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies"



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Friday, January 21, 2011 1:07 PM

DREAMTROVE


Having had similar experiences, I find it very credible. It's a short term influence, but it may cause the teen to seek out more. Ultimately, his destiny is still his own. It probably occurred to him that night that he could probably get a job washing dishes. So, yeah, It might have changed him.


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Sunday, January 23, 2011 11:38 AM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


I'm sure "Hardware" will be along any second now to change everyone's posts to show how this kid should have been killed in a hail of bullets. ;)

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