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Friday, August 4, 2006

Well my fine friends - we got bumped. Baldwin County Al is the fastest growing county in the US, with Foley being the fastest growing city. Nowhere is this more apparent- apparently- then in the court rooms of Baldwin County.

Me and Mine (StepDadster and the Mommy and I) dutifully arrived at the alloted time to find 25 other cases as well.

We waited around for the order of the cases to be set and finally the judge offered to see us on Monday afternoon or at some other as yet named date. So I guess Monday is the better of the two.

Now, it comes to light that the ExMrFMF has somehow forgotten that I am the smarter of the two of us. I say this because at one point his lawyer told my lawyer that they were willing to "Let" me have the house, the kids, $600 a month alimony (NOT RETROACTIVE) IF I we would agree to forgiving the truck debt.

We of course laughed in their faces (well we didn't but it would have been funny) and told them that gee WE would agree to the original settlement AND he pays for the truck.

Bottom line, some idiot has convinced this idiot that the house that is falling apart around us is worth $211,000.00. This same house that we got a $132,000,00 loan on in July of '04. He seems to think that by "letting" me have the house he is losing out on that equity and I should be willing to pay my parents back the $21,000,00 they gave him for a truck I have never driven and don't own.

So its off to court we go.

The way it looks now - My attorney is going to argue that in July of '04 Randy (thats the asshole) initiated a divorce and signed settlement papers that gave me the house, its contentsm the kids, 2 of the 4 vehicles, and $1300 a month. Now - but for an error on the part of his attorney (she didnt send in a form) we would be divorced. therefore - BARE MINIMUM we should get the original inforced. He is also going to try and argue that I had no idea my husband was shagging the neighbor and had I known would not have agreed to the original divorce - But I have pretty much settled on taking the original and being ecstatic if I get more.

Anyway - any opinions? Is it just me or is this man crazy to want to have a judge hear all the crap he has done? Oh and she is a Pregnant judge. A Republican, Conservative, Christian, mother and pregnant wife. Um, Houston I think the asshole has a problem.

Upshot - I still ain't got no money. Mom has to buy #2's uniform and will probably pay my house payment and buy some groceries. All because Randy couldn't keep his willie in his pants. What a complete piece of crap.


Sunday, August 6, 2006 8:03 PM


Keep you chin held high! IMHO, you got an excellant judge,...she will not have any simpathy for that piece of go-se. She could change all agreed clauses, and really make him pay! God I hope so,...I'm so tired of women getting the short end when they didn't cause the problem. I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. :)

Sunday, August 6, 2006 1:09 PM


Randy the Asshat? Meet Karma, the Amazon warrior woman who's gonna drop kick ya to the head as foreplay before buggering ya with a sword;)

Oh...while the court date's been postponed, I still have good thoughts about this going in your favour. Hell...the judge will probably wanna beat the living f&$k out of the slimeball personally when she hears about the stuff he's pulled:D


Saturday, August 5, 2006 4:11 AM


exMrFMF stacked the deck, dealt the hands, and then his lawyer pointed out that he'd dealt himself the loosing one; and you have the proverbial 'man with a big gun hanging out of the spaceship'... *grin*
As nervous as you may be about the proceedings FMF, it should only be because courtrooms are not your usual hang-out. The Piece of Go-se (POG) on the other hand is suffering the dread of delayed punishment, and the thought of having the transcripts become public record for you to email to all of his co-workers (because the version he's been giving them is no doubt not quite in keeping with official version)...
MSG - I'm in. But lets hold off until FMF gets all she has coming and the POG has suffered as much as possible. Death should be a release, not a sentence.

Friday, August 4, 2006 5:42 PM


what RMMC said

Friday, August 4, 2006 1:47 PM


FMF, Glad to hear you're feeling a bit better even if it's been put off yet again. *RMMC grumbles for FMF* I'll still be keeping ya in my thoughts while I'm gone.

Oh, and the SOS (sack of sh*t)? I hope he gets BURIED come Monday. Literally or legally makes no diffy. *hugs*

Friday, August 4, 2006 11:42 AM


Still say you should let me kill him...please please...I've always wanted to try out some of our "perfect" murders:)

Friday, August 4, 2006 10:51 AM


OMG what an idiot! I'm sorry that it got postponed, I know it's torture to have to wait. It looks as though your chances of a good outcome are...well, good. We'll keep all of our fingers crossed. Love you! D

Friday, August 4, 2006 9:50 AM


Lordy, lordy, he's a slimeball. I do have to say, though, that I like your chances with that judge.

Let's hope the law, morals, and family values viewpoint comes through. That should be entertaining.

I just about spewed my coffee when I read this: "ExMrFMF has somehow forgotten that I am the smarter of the two of us"!

Hope you can hang in there over the weekend.

And... exhale...

Good luck!

Friday, August 4, 2006 8:39 AM


After learning all of this, Randy certainly is a POS. A slimy POS.
It's fun knowing you've got the higher ground.
I believe in Karma. I have seen it reward and punish over and over and over in my life and in the lives of those around me. Randy will get his, cosmically speaking. I have no doubt. I also know you will benefit from it, too. Have Faith. Breathe Deep. Smile.


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