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FutureMrsFIllion

I am done
Wednesday, June 21, 2006

OK. I am done. I keep trying to hang on, and I keep trying to be positive and everytime I start to feel normal, and like things will be ok - I get kicked in the teeth again.

I have to go to court today in reference to #2. The child with Reactive Airway disease, Allergic Asthma and a birth defect that means his chest cavity is too small for his heart. Apparently the school board feels his absences are excessive so now I have to go to court. Yeah he missed 22 days. 5 days for a funeral. 1 day to get his learners permit and see a doctor for a surgical referal and 16 days for being so sick he couldn't out of bed. So yeah that's lovely.

Then if that wasn't enough HIMSELF called to announce that we needed to "sit down and settle this thing" what he meant by that was he isn't willing to give me anything and wants me to sign the papers. He tells me that he is not paying my parents back for the truck and that we can take it out of the equity in the house. Now, there IS NO equity in the house and if there were we would have to sell it to get it. Or I would have to take out a loan to get it. Either way, I am out of a place to live, or paying more out of my pocket.

I am now so behind on my house payment that I will lose it anyway. I have until 1 July to come up with 1200 additional dollars. Or I will be escorted off of my own property by the Sherrifs. I have no way of getting this money. That is unless of course I get a hold of my life insurance policy payout. Well not me, but the boys.

I probably won't be posting anymore. Love to all.

COMMENTS

Sunday, June 25, 2006 4:24 PM

BLUEEYEDBRIGADIER


Not gonna repeat the usual "Have faith" platitudes to your FMF....probably become all blury and repetitive after a few.

You and yours are in our hearts and we wish ya all the best in this. You will get through this cuz you are in the right; it is sad that you have to go through all this to simply get to square one of a new life that can be built on. But remember....Mal and Zoe were in this position once and they came out OK. It took time, and perserverence, and being just sheer pig-headed. The same will be said of you in time.

You take all the time you need to get these issues all sorted out, and then come back with you tales of triumph so that we may raise an alcoholic beverage to your success and bond over life's speedbumps:D

BEB

Friday, June 23, 2006 3:10 AM

MAL4PREZ


Tried to leave a reply earlier this week and it failed - come back come back! Don't lose hope!

Love you lots - all my positive vibes are pointed in your direction, wherever that may be!

Thursday, June 22, 2006 4:55 PM

BSCPANTHERFAN


I posted this once but it has disappeared, so here goes again. You are in all our prayers for whatever Deity you wish. We love you and hope that things work oout well for you. Please know that you have a lot of fans here at this site.

Wednesday, June 21, 2006 1:13 PM

NCBROWNCOAT


FFF,
Been through a rough divorce myself so hang on there. There is life after this rough patch.

I have some advice about the school situation and mortgage situation so if you want to email me at martyd_41@yahoo.com

Wednesday, June 21, 2006 1:11 PM

NCBROWNCOAT


FFF,
Been through a rough divorce myself so hang on there. There is life after this rough patch.

I have some advice about the school situation and mortgage situation so if you want to email me at martyd_41@yahoo.com

Wednesday, June 21, 2006 1:09 PM

NCBROWNCOAT


FFF,
I've been in a similar situation too. Take a deep breath and tackle each one by one.

First of all, the school-get documentation from the doc and send a note to the school (and keep copies) each time darling son you even thinks about getting sick. Let the school know about his medical problems too. Contact the person in charge of exceptional children-they can help explain the law, Federal and State that your son may come under.

As for the house, contact whoeever has the mortgage yesterday. Explain the situation.

I've been through a rough divorce with a child with learning problems and work at a bank. If you need to contact me please email at martyd_41@yahoo.com

Wednesday, June 21, 2006 8:33 AM

GORRAMREEVERS


We're sending positive vibes your way Lady Browncoat. Everyone has their turn, it's yours. Remember what the Cap'n says, "Keep Flying".

Wednesday, June 21, 2006 8:31 AM

SAFEAT2ND


Chin up kiddo. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but there is always a way. That's what family and friends are for.

Plus, you've got a strong spirit, don't let someone elses pettiness break it.

Unfortunately all I have to offer is moral support and kind words.

Sometimes that's just not enough, and for that I appologize.

Remember one thing, Browncoats never give up. You hold, ok?

Wednesday, June 21, 2006 7:44 AM

FOLLOWMAL


Gosh, this is the worst place in the world to be posting this, FMF, because the site is so hinky!

Please don't talk like this. I have been where you are now and there is always another way. I'm sending a big hug to you. If this posts at all....please talk to me via email... followmal@gmail.com but don't give up!


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