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Relationship question...

POSTED BY: CHRISISALL
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Wednesday, March 31, 2010 2:49 PM

CHRISISALL


...............

Nah, don't think I'll ask it; women don't make no more sense than men do.




The laughing Chrisisall

"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010 3:22 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Uh-uh - You don't get to lob a conversational grenade like that in here and not expect someone to jump on it!

Bottom line: You screwed up. Apologize. Apologize for not apologizing sooner. Trust me, she can hold out longer than you can.

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010 3:36 PM

CHRISISALL


Agent Smith said it best, I think:

"But I believe that, as a species, human beings define their reality through suffering and misery. The perfect world was a dream that your primitive cerebrum kept trying to wake up from."

The "perfect world" being contentment. Nothing is ever enough. We see it play out on the world stage, as well as in personal relationships.
"Accept me" gets replaced by "Make me happy."
"Enough" gets replaced by "I need more."

We are spoiled as a culture. In one corner, we want the stars. In another, we refuse to give the basic emotional & economic support to the children that need it most- the future adults that will transmit this broken mindset to their own kids.

The report card shows America *FAILS* at family values.

Just look at the kid in Massachusetts that killed herself. Did her family move here from Ireland for that? To see their child SO sad at not being accepted that she needed to die?

Thank you 9-11, the xenophobic reaction, and the internet for being such a cruel teacher. It is truly us VS. us now.

Wow. I'm such a downer with this shit, sorry.





The laughing Chrisisall

"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010 3:45 PM

CHRISISALL


Quote:
Originally posted by Kwicko:

Bottom line: You screwed up. Apologize. Apologize for not apologizing sooner. Trust me, she can hold out longer than you can.
I dearly appreciate the input Mike, but it looks like things are goin' south.
My Son is the brightest star in my 'Verse, though, and will no doubt pull me through.

I *hope* I'm just being pessimistic, but unlike the Beatles stated, Love is not all you need...


The laughing Chrisisall

"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010 3:53 PM

KWICKO

"We'll know our disinformation program is complete when everything the American public believes is false." -- William Casey, Reagan's presidential campaign manager & CIA Director (from first staff meeting in 1981)


Quote:
Originally posted by chrisisall:
Quote:
Originally posted by Kwicko:

Bottom line: You screwed up. Apologize. Apologize for not apologizing sooner. Trust me, she can hold out longer than you can.
I dearly appreciate the input Mike, but it looks like things are goin' south.
My Son is the brightest star in my 'Verse, though, and will no doubt pull me through.

I *hope* I'm just being pessimistic, but unlike the Beatles stated, Love is not all you need...


The laughing Chrisisall

"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010


Very sorry to hear that, Chris. I'm not kidding when I say this: Fix it. Find a way to make it right.




"I supported Bush in 2000 and 2004 and intellegence [sic] had very little to do with that decision." - Hero, Real World Event Discussions

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010 3:54 PM

AURAPTOR

America loves a winner!


Quote:
Originally posted by chrisisall:
...............

Nah, don't think I'll ask it; women don't make no more sense than men do.




Knew who started this thread before I opened it.




Summer Glau can simply walk into Mordor


Bones: "Don't 'rawr' her!"
Booth: "What? she'rawred' me first."

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010 4:07 PM

CHRISISALL


Quote:
Originally posted by Kwicko:

Fix it. Find a way to make it right.


If it can be fixed, it will be fixed.
Lots of emotional baggage & midlife crisis' in the mix.
It will all unfold as it should, though. My Son is my main concern at this point.
And I love my Wife. Since '84 (when your idea of a good time was watchin' Bugs Bunny on TV & gnawin' on your fudgesicle).



The laughing Chrisisall

"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010 4:08 PM

CHRISISALL


Quote:
Originally posted by AURaptor:


Knew who started this thread before I opened it.



How? Do I have a way?

Is that better than a plan?


The laughing Chrisisall

"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010 4:26 PM

AURAPTOR

America loves a winner!


Dunno.

Just believe.


Summer Glau can simply walk into Mordor


Bones: "Don't 'rawr' her!"
Booth: "What? she'rawred' me first."

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010 4:31 PM

CHRISISALL


Quote:
Originally posted by AURaptor:

Just believe.

Thanks.

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010 4:58 PM

FREMDFIRMA



Maybe not, but Love + Understanding, now, that'll get ya far.

See, you understand on the greater scale, but do you understand on the smaller, the feelings behind words pounded into form like square pegs, that do such a terrible job of expressing things when someone doesn't HAVE the words ?

When there might not BE any words ?

With understanding comes tolerance, with tolerance comes acceptance, with acceptance comes peace.

Do not speak, but LISTEN, not with your ears, but with your heart, and by that fashion know the path.

Your own pain has blinded you, and caused you to wander, to deceive yourself with what you think you see, the illusions of the world presented to you through blinders of your own making.

Because I understand your question, rather than your words, you will understand my answer.

-Frem
Advisement: free advice is often worth what you paid for it.

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010 5:05 PM

CHRISISALL


Thanks Frem, that's... well... touching, AND real.
Thanks.

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Thursday, April 1, 2010 8:19 AM

OPPYH


For the sake of your son, try everything in the verse to salvage the relationship.

A divorce will F#$%K him up more than it will you, or your wife...trust me.

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Thursday, April 1, 2010 8:29 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:
Originally posted by OPPYH:
For the sake of your son, try everything in the verse to salvage the relationship.

A divorce will F#$%K him up more than it will you, or your wife...trust me.


Yeah, I know. Hopin' it's just one of those crazy things that blows over. We've had such times in the past, but not since Sonisall came on the scene.


The laughing Chrisisall

"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010

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