Well...I would like to say that life is unfairly tipped towards pain on the hurt/happiness scale because it will shift to all kinds of unbelievable happiness in the future. However, that's speculation:(

Still...let it be said there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. To prove I have no shame, I will now make the following honest announcement: I am a virgin too. I have loved, I have lost and I know what it feels like to have the brain advocating one thing and the heart another. So know you are not alone and that there are people who know how it feels to be in the same boat;)

BEB

Well.. Im just gonna wish you a nice day. Im not that good with pseudo wisdom, so ill leave that to those who are. Have a shiny day :) you can get a hug too if you want :)

Here is my slightly cryptic, yet strangely poetic, words of pseudo-wisdom-
That which we seem not to posess, and that others hold in a false abundance, tastes all the sweeter since we can not feel nor taste the fruits of what they have wrought. Nay, tis but False Pretense; Those that seem happier are, forsooth, mostly but hollow inside. That facade put upon so greiviously and painfully for friends, that which we always see- what is it, but dust and wind? That which we see with our eyes, we hold as true- even though it may not be so. Very, very few have found the happiness they seek; merely, they take what they find. So fear not; what may seem as only your problem, it is truly the burden of all mankind. Have faith, friend, for what you fight is all there ever was.
Now, I'm done being all poetical-like.
Cheers, mate, and stay strong!

-Danny

I hope you figure out what you want , Steamer.It's so hard to listen to experience & have faith at the same time.I have found that the hurt always outweighs the happiness.I think it's so we can appreciate the happiness and beauty that much more :)