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a little help please
Thursday, November 23, 2006 8:17 PM
It's Thanksgiving and I'm not going over to my uncles house for the feast until 4:30 and this is more fun anyway.A lot has happened since my last blog. I relized that WORD does not recinize the words blog, website or chatroom. My friend also got mad at me over something stupid. Here is how it happened.
Me and one of my other friend had a walk that we made up as an inside joke about the movie TITANIC. My best friend who is mad wanted us to show her how to do the walk and tell her what the joke was. I said that I couldn't tell her because inside jokes are ment to be kept secret. When I said that she said so much for friendship. M and my other friend explained that she could make up an inside joke of her own that we couldn't know the meaning of, but she didn't want to hear it. The next day I waited for her so we could walked to school, but she was late and in the end I walked without her. She got to school late and when i saw her she grimaced at me. Then she just plain avoided me. We fight a lot so I decided to wait. We would always make up. That was DAYS ago. Just yesterday I sent her an E-mail. In it i said that becuase she likes to ignore people that she is mad at and I am always the one to make us friends again that this time it was her call whether or not we stay friends anymore. Because she didn't want to talk to me and I expected her to just E-mail me back i was careful to tell her to let me know in person. Even though i don't i told her that i trsted her to make a good decision. In a way i think if she wants to keep fighting then i don't want to stay her friend. But she does try to pretend to like Firefly which is nice sometimes but it would also nice if she could just cut the act because i would rather talk to someone who is as passonite about Firefly and Serenity as I am.
Anyone with any ideas on what i should do about this little delema please post a comment.
COMMENTS: 3
Comments
Thursday, 23 November 2006 21:56
If I was you, this is what I'd do:
Tell her that this whole thing is silly and has been blown way out of proportion (on both sides) and that you're sorry - then explain the inside joke.
Oh, and chill about her pretending to like Firefly. In this world, that's a small lie, and she *is* being nice. Besides, not everyone will like Firefly and Serenity as much as hardcore Browncoats (which I am not), and you have to accept that and move on.
Tell her that this whole thing is silly and has been blown way out of proportion (on both sides) and that you're sorry - then explain the inside joke.
Oh, and chill about her pretending to like Firefly. In this world, that's a small lie, and she *is* being nice. Besides, not everyone will like Firefly and Serenity as much as hardcore Browncoats (which I am not), and you have to accept that and move on.
Friday, 24 November 2006 01:14
Nice to know things don't change from generation to generation;)
Still...contact your friend, try to sit down with them and just be honest. Explain how you meant no offence over not telling her about the inside joke and how you waited for her before school but she was late in coming, so you booked. Even if things go kaput, being honest with one another will help you both out at this time. Everyone airs their thoughts, concerns and grievances...and solutions can be found:)
And yeah...give her some slack about not being gonzo about The 'Verse Joss Built. Like yinyang said, not everyone's gonna love it like we do or obsess about it's every nuance like a smaller portion of Browncoats do. It's sad...but it's true. I am sure she loves stuff you can't fathom as being enjoyable, but I would hope you would let her have her obsessions without grief;)
BEB
Still...contact your friend, try to sit down with them and just be honest. Explain how you meant no offence over not telling her about the inside joke and how you waited for her before school but she was late in coming, so you booked. Even if things go kaput, being honest with one another will help you both out at this time. Everyone airs their thoughts, concerns and grievances...and solutions can be found:)
And yeah...give her some slack about not being gonzo about The 'Verse Joss Built. Like yinyang said, not everyone's gonna love it like we do or obsess about it's every nuance like a smaller portion of Browncoats do. It's sad...but it's true. I am sure she loves stuff you can't fathom as being enjoyable, but I would hope you would let her have her obsessions without grief;)
BEB
MCMORRI1
Tuesday, 19 December 2006 01:09
thanks. my friend and i are friends again.
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