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Politics are Funny

POSTED BY: XRAFTERMANX
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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 7:11 AM

XRAFTERMANX


Every time that I see a new Political thread I laugh because I know it's gonna be the same people writing the same rhetoric.

Who would the captain and the rest of the freedom loving crew be behind in our political system. You may say neither but they followed someone at one time since they were browncoats.

So would they be behind free-trade, and less government or free-speech and government regulations and control.

We have a very odd system of freedom in trade or freedom in morals, the choice is yours.

WWTCD What Would The Captain Do?

I know I'm just inviting those regulars to feast and feed their own ego's so keep a civil tongue at this table.

You got a job, we can do it, don't care much what it is. ~Detroit Browncoats~

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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 7:27 AM

FREDGIBLET


Quote:

Originally posted by xraftermanx:
WWTCD What Would The Captain Do?



Vote for Ron Paul.

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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 7:39 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by xraftermanx:
What Would The Captain Do?


The Captain would say this whole board is just a colossal waste of time & brainpower, and tell us to go about the business of makin' some coin to keep our own ships in the air, I believe.

Chrisisall

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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 7:45 AM

XRAFTERMANX


Basically that was my whole point with this post.

You got a job, we can do it, don't care much what it is. ~Detroit Browncoats~

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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 7:50 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by xraftermanx:
Basically that was my whole point with this post.


Sh*t! Did I kill this thread by coming up with the right answer so quickly?
Sorry.

Spoilin'itfortherestisall

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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 8:40 AM

MAL4PREZ


IMO, RWED is nothing but a place for folks to abuse each other. (Browncoat S/M club?) Politics is just an excuse for folks to villify and dehumanize each other, get self-righteous, and work out their bad moods. No moderator, no consequences. No need to look anyone in the eye.

I've noticed that anyone who has and expects a basic level of respect eventually leaves RWED, or turns bitter and self-righteous themselves. I've seen even the humorous and light-hearted chrisisall get pulled down the angry path. I was a few steps along myself, which is why I won't go into RWED anymore. It doesn't bring out a good side of me, and the relationships I was developing with other RWED posters was not healthy or at all enjoyable. I'm not into S/M. I don't like being abused, and I don't want to get in the habit of attacking others. (Even those who ask for it by disagreeing with me, the fools! )

So, yeah, WWTCD? He'd get his own ship and fill it with people who can keep a civil tongue in their mouth, and let the assholes of the verse hang out in their own cesspool and gnaw each other's tails off.

Here's to hoping the cesspool doesn't follow us here, xraftermanx!


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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 10:44 AM

CITIZEN


Quote:

Originally posted by mal4prez:
IMO, RWED is nothing but a place for folks to abuse each other. (Browncoat S/M club?) Politics is just an excuse for folks to villify and dehumanize each other, get self-righteous, and work out their bad moods. No moderator, no consequences. No need to look anyone in the eye.

Yeah but you're only saying that because you're a farty pants.



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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 11:01 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by mal4prez:
I've seen even the humorous and light-hearted chrisisall get pulled down the angry path.

Don't make me angry with a heated argument over inertia & velocity, Mal4prez, you wouldn't like me when I'm angry....*clothes rip, skin greens*

The goofy Chrisisall

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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 11:14 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by citizen:
you're a farty pants.


The ad-hominem rears it's ugly head....

Hulknowisall

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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 11:24 AM

EMBERS


well I am pretty sure that none of our BDHs are registered to vote because they are worried about being called in for jury duty (not to mention being caught by the Feds/Alliance)
but if they DID then
Mal would be a Libertarian
Inara would be a Republican
but I'm not completely sure about anyone else...
I guess I should think about this more.

hmmmmm

New Firefly fans should check this out: http://www.fireflyfans.net/thread.asp?b=2&t=15816

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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 11:59 AM

CITIZEN


Quote:

Originally posted by chrisisall:
The ad-hominem rears it's ugly head....

Hulknowisall

Oh shut up you smelly green smegger.



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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 12:02 PM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by citizen:
shut up you smelly green smegger.


I Hulk-fart in your general direction.

Toxic Chrisisall

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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 12:43 PM

BIGDAMNNOBODY


Quote:

Originally posted by xraftermanx:
Basically that was my whole point with this post.


So you started your own thread to make a point that threads and posting are a waste of time?

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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 12:52 PM

CHRISISALL


Do you not enjoy the delicious ironyisall



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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 12:56 PM

BIGDAMNNOBODY


Quote:

Originally posted by chrisisall:
Do you not enjoy the delicious ironyisall


Irony is not interchangable with clueless.

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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 1:48 PM

CITIZEN


Quote:

Originally posted by chrisisall:
I Hulk-fart in your general direction.

Smells like green roses.



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Tuesday, March 4, 2008 2:16 PM

XRAFTERMANX


BIGD

Pretty much made this post for a laugh. It's funny to read how much people will get all worked up about politics at a site dedicated to entertainment.

I love Firefly and Serenity, especially the whole freedom or death thing and just wanted to make a post that pointed out that if we truly see ourselves as Browncoats that perhaps our politics would follow suit.

Mainly did it just for a laugh.

You got a job, we can do it, don't care much what it is. ~Detroit Browncoats~

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 4:05 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by xraftermanx:


Pretty much made this post for a laugh.

A sense of humour is a rare commodity in many RWED folks, I conjure.

The glass is half-goofy Chrisisall

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 5:22 AM

MAL4PREZ


Quote:

Originally posted by citizen:
Yeah but you're only saying that because you're a farty pants.

You say that like it's a bad thing...

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 6:07 AM

MAL4PREZ


Quote:

Originally posted by chrisisall:
Don't make me angry with a heated argument over inertia & velocity, Mal4prez, you wouldn't like me when I'm angry....*clothes rip, skin greens*

Well, I can't blame you there. Who isn't passionate about inertia and velocity?

*scratches head*

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 6:10 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by mal4prez:
Well, I can't blame you there. Who isn't passionate about inertia and velocity?

*scratches head*


See here for my trauma on the matter
http://www.fireflyfans.net/thread.asp?b=18&t=32880


Dogwithaboneisall

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 6:43 AM

MAL4PREZ


Quote:

Originally posted by chrisisall:
See here for my trauma on the matter
http://www.fireflyfans.net/thread.asp?b=18&t=32880

Dammit, you are NOT getting me back into RWED. I'm free and I ain't going back!

Gotta say though, this puppy thread makes XRAFTERMANX's point perfectly. It reminds me of when I was 11 and fought with someone at summer camp over whether the earth was 3rd or 4th planet from the sun. Stupidest fight EVER. We coulda just looked it up. But the fact wasn't the point, we wanted to fight.

Hey, the physics of projectile motion and rotational inertia and air resistance may be fascinating, but come on! Everyone on your puppy thread admits they don't know enough physics to measure the gravational pull of their asses, and yet you're all ready to come to virtual blows over your personal interpretation of a grainy cell phone video. I gotta say Chris, though I could possibly agree with your point (not sure because I watched the puppy video once and I'm not watching it again) you were a little heavy-handed. RWED is changing you, grasshopper. Looked to me like you played the larger part in making the fight happen.

Well. So that's my check-in with RWED. Guess I wasn't wrong to get out.

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 6:57 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by mal4prez:
I gotta say Chris, though I could possibly agree with your point (not sure because I watched the puppy video once and I'm not watching it again) you were a little heavy-handed. RWED is changing you, grasshopper. Looked to me like you played the larger part in making the fight happen.


I got a problem with peeps tellin' me I'm wrong about something, but not explaining why...it's a parental issue thing
Yeah, I'd better get back out while I have the chance, I spend more time on Serenitymovie's RWED anyway- the peeps there are opinionated, but they're fairly cordial. I was on a similar thread about the puppy video, expressed the same reasons why I felt it was fake, and met with no hostility for it. RWED here has gotten measurably meaner, or maybe I'm just not used to it anymore.

So here's to the entertainment side of FFF!



The tooth-achey Chrisisall

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 7:30 AM

MAL4PREZ


Quote:

Originally posted by chrisisall:
I got a problem with peeps tellin' me I'm wrong about something, but not explaining why...it's a parental issue thing

Man, do I get that! OK, I looked again, and have to admit that the other guy certainly was a jerk in his first few replies to you. What that suggests to me is that he doesn't actually know the physics. Seriously - I smell hot air. I sense a vacuum.

I meant to check out Serenitymovie's site after you talked about it, but never did. Life's too busy. RW topics are interesting, and I miss talking about stuff. Even the puppy thing could have been a good topic - I taught a class on projectile motion just last week, and I think about this crap. But I'm not going to get into it on FFF, since people here want the fight more than the discussion. What's the point?

Really, RWED has a culture of escalation. As soon as one guy's a jerk, the other has to outdo him (or her) and there's no chance to back off. The topic is secondary to the personality clash, and everyone just accepts that. It's hard not to feed into it. I tried not to, and failed.

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RWED here has gotten measurably meaner, or maybe I'm just not used to it anymore.
No, it's not just you. I think a few meanies have set the tone, and the reasonable people (I include myself) don't care enough to take the boards back. The jerks can have it. I got other stuff to do.


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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 7:53 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by mal4prez:
What that suggests to me is that he doesn't actually know the physics. Seriously - I smell hot air. I sense a vacuum.

BWAHAHAHAHAH!!
Quote:



I meant to check out Serenitymovie's site after you talked about it, but never did. Life's too busy. RW topics are interesting, and I miss talking about stuff. Even the puppy thing could have been a good topic -

Check out the same topic at the other site: it went very differently...
http://www.serenitymovie.org/browncoats/forums/index.php?showtopic=208
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Quote:

I taught a class on projectile motion just last week, and I think about this crap.
Really? COOL!
(Hey, can you tell me how the inertial dampeners work on SGA's Puddle Jumpers? Does they require the use of gravitons or are they purely magnetic?)



Calm Chrisisall

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 7:58 AM

BIGDAMNNOBODY


Quote:

Originally posted by mal4prez:
No, it's not just you. I think a few meanies have set the tone, and the reasonable people (I include myself) don't care enough to take the boards back. The jerks can have it. I got other stuff to do.


But what will you use your soapbox for then?

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 8:02 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by BigDamnNobody:

But what will you use your soapbox for then?

Nuthin' but love here brother, nuthin' but love....isall



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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 8:05 AM

FREMDFIRMA


Then I would advise you to not keep lobbing "shells" at the place from a distance like the class bully making faces at one from behind the teacher.

You also have no moral ground to be calling anyone a meanie or a jerk based on your own conduct previous and current.

If you have an axe to grind, go grind it there, the rest of this board is no place for these kind of discussions, and we should have the decency to respect that.

-Frem
*PS, that goes for all of us, not just any one person.

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 8:16 AM

MAL4PREZ


Quote:

Originally posted by chrisisall:
Check out the same topic at the other site: it went very differently...
http://www.serenitymovie.org/browncoats/forums/index.php?showtopic=208
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Semper Fido LOL! Oh, I'm going straight to hell... (And like you, I'm going on the theory that it wasn't real.)

Quote:

(Hey, can you tell me how the inertial dampeners work on SGA's Puddle Jumpers? Does they require the use of gravitons or are they purely magnetic?)
I believe those rely on the zero mass zero charge dark matter bullshititon particle, which is widely known to clump inside TV scifi writer's heads. Incidentally, the properties of bullshititons frequently change when the script gets too long and the storyline needs something to resolve it quickly.

Quote:

Originally posted by BigDamnNobody:
But what will you use your soapbox for then?

They make lovely flowerpots. I'll plant some cheery violets for you BDN, because I know that you're really a wonderful person with great taste in sci-fi who, like the rest of us, just needs a little love.

(Have I broken free of the long, claspy fingers of the RWED animosity cesspool? I'm trying!)

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 8:18 AM

BIGDAMNNOBODY


Quote:

Originally posted by Fremdfirma:
Then I would advise you to not keep lobbing "shells" at the place from a distance like the class bully making faces at one from behind the teacher.


Is this directed at me? What do you mean?
Quote:

Originally posted by Fremdfirma:
You also have no moral ground to be calling anyone a meanie or a jerk based on your own conduct previous and current.


Who better to call out a meanie or a jerk than a meanie or a jerk.
Quote:

Originally posted by Fremdfirma:
If you have an axe to grind, go grind it there, the rest of this board is no place for these kind of discussions, and we should have the decency to respect that.


Are you saying I cannot talk about RWED in a thread about RWED?

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 8:24 AM

MAL4PREZ


Frem - so I guess when you sent me a PM saying you were "mortified" by your post to me, you didn't mean it?

I never got personal with you, my friend. I never called you names, as you did to me. I wasn't even talking to you when you went on your rant, and the person I WAS talking to was fine. I ain't perfect, but I'll hold my conduct up to yours any day.

And so the cesspool has arrived. I'm out. Rant all you want.

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 8:25 AM

CITIZEN


Quote:

Originally posted by mal4prez:
I gotta say Chris, though I could possibly agree with your point (not sure because I watched the puppy video once and I'm not watching it again) you were a little heavy-handed. RWED is changing you, grasshopper. Looked to me like you played the larger part in making the fight happen.

For the better. Hold on to your hate, with it you shall become more powerful than any neo-con poster can imagine, focus your bile, your rage, strike them down with it and together we shall rule this forum as Yankee and Brit!

Fear shall keep the other posters in line, fear of our flamebait.



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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 8:28 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by mal4prez:
I believe those rely on the zero mass zero charge dark matter bullshititon particle, which is widely known to clump inside TV scifi writer's heads. Incidentally, the properties of bullshititons frequently change when the script gets too long and the storyline needs something to resolve it quickly.


LOL, never heard of them before, but it all seems to make sense now, LOL.

I've always liked relativatron particles- their presence allows a character's physical abilities or mental acuity to change depending upon the demands of this week's script....

heh hehisall

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 8:37 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by citizen:
Hold on to your hate, with it you shall become more powerful than any neo-con poster can imagine, focus your bile, your rage, strike them down with it and together we shall rule this forum as Yankee and Brit!


I'LL NEVER JOIN YOU!!!

You'vefailedyourHighnessisall

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 8:46 AM

CITIZEN


Quote:

Originally posted by chrisisall:
I'LL NEVER JOIN YOU!!!

You'vefailedyourHighnessisall

You make me sad, so be it.



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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 8:58 AM

CHRISISALL


Quote:

Originally posted by citizen:
You make me sad,

Ohhhh, come git a hug, you old evil Dark-side-y guy!

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 10:13 AM

FREMDFIRMA


Mal4Prez.

Oh I meant it, still do.

However, that being said, this flame and flee game is unworthy of you and insulting, you're so fast to call out others, and yet it's somehow ok for you to indulge in the same behavior ?

And then not be exactly honest about it ?

No, I don't think so.

And so you're "out" the instant someone calls you on it ?
And with further insult, impressive.


BDN...

Not saying we can not - I am saying we *should* not, it's an act of disrespect against those who do not want to participate in those kinds of discussions, and a form of "bleedover" that should be immediately nipped in the bud before we needlessly inflict it unwanted upon others.

That much respect, I think our fellow Browncoats deserve.

-F

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 10:40 AM

BIGDAMNNOBODY


Quote:

Originally posted by Fremdfirma:
BDN...

Not saying we can not - I am saying we *should* not, it's an act of disrespect against those who do not want to participate in those kinds of discussions, and a form of "bleedover" that should be immediately nipped in the bud before we needlessly inflict it unwanted upon others.

That much respect, I think our fellow Browncoats deserve.


I agree. Since this thread's author is fairly new, perhaps they were unaware that a thread about RWED should probably go in RWED. Perhaps a mod (if any are still lurking about) could relocate this thread. I can sympathise, there are several on-going threads in the main forum that I would not like to see "bleedover" into RWED.

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 11:42 AM

MAL4PREZ


Damned. I shouldn't have checked in.

Quote:

Originally posted by Fremdfirma:
However, that being said, this flame and flee game is unworthy of you and insulting, you're so fast to call out others, and yet it's somehow ok for you to indulge in the same behavior ?

OK, thing is - just like before, I wasn't talking about you. You seem to be eager to take everything I say as a personal insult aimed at yourself. What I'm after here is not a flame of any single person, but an unheated discussion of the general culture of RWED, the culture of personal attacks and escalation. When I said there are a few meanies who seem to have brought this culture about, I honestly wasn't meaning you. I think your posts are generally decent, it's just me you seem to have a problem with.

So when I posted to this thread, I was imagining that reasonable people (like chrisisall and the majority of RWED'ers) might actually someday come to think - hey, yeah. I don't have to lash out in return! - and RWED could become a more civil place. The meanies would be isolated and ignored in their meanness. That's all I'm after.

As for the fleeing part: Frem, I'd have been more than happy to work all this out with you over PMs, but you don't get them. I've sitting on this thing between me and you for a while now. Clearly, it's still bugging me. So, sorry, but I'm going to deal with this publicly.

For the record, what you said to me hurt. It seriously seriously hurt. I never thought of you as someone to talk like that, so maybe that's why it hurt so bad as it did. It totally caught me by surprise - what you said, and the strength of my reaction. My "fleeing" that discussion and this is not so I can sit on my superiority throne and gloat over you or anyone else, it's to protect myself. I don't deal with mudslinging well. It. Hurts. Me.

I'm not hanging out on a fansite so I can get hacked at, and I surely don't want to become a more vindictive person, which I have a habit of doing when I spend too much time on RWED. So you see, when things get ugly I have no reason to be here. It's not a treat for me to leave. I miss posting. But every single discussion in RWED gets ugly, so what else can I do? In earnest, what else can I do?

I know: say to hell with this and go to dance class. See ya.

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 5:07 PM

FREMDFIRMA


I understand your point, Mal4.

Thing is, what you maybe didn't realize is that you yourself slung quite a bit of mud, as I recall, and did so in a very superior and hurtful way - you obviously did not mean to, it's not really in your nature TO mean to, but you got downright hurtful and malicious to anyone who simply shared a habit you didn't like, and I returned the favor, although admittedly at a level of unwarranted overkill.

Stuff like that happens, text doesn't carry naunces and is far more prone to misinterpretation, sure, and I *did* apologise to you, and I DO understand where you're coming from - or I would not be here suggesting we avoid inflicting RWED on posters who don't volunteer for our merry circular firing squad.

But that does not justify downright insulting folks because they debate there, that was uncalled for and unworthy of you, and I know you maybe got issues about it still, but that is no cause for allowing them to manifest here, and insulting an entire group of people while calling their forum a cesspool.

Frankly, you may not mean to, but you really are coming off in a holier than thou fashion that strikes me as out of place for you, and if you believe dealing with RWED affects you in such a negative fashion, why bother with throwing insults at the place ?

If it's not ok for them to insult you, it's certainly not ok for you to insult them - fair is fair, ok ?

And imma just leave it at that.

-Frem

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008 6:54 PM

DEADLOCKVICTIM




...politics are NOT funny...

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Thursday, March 6, 2008 8:01 AM

MAL4PREZ


Frem,

Look - I'm not fleeing! It's probably a very bad idea. You may have got enough dislike of me and a strong enough image of who I am that I won't convince you differently. Particularly not with what I'm about to say, but what the hell. I'm changing jobs and soon won't be so monumentally bored for 8 hours every day, and I'll make good of my intention to quit coming here and poking the RWED beast. We'll be rid of each other for good. Be comforted in knowing this won't last long.

But it ain't over yet. I'm at work, and I'm bored. So here goes...

I just can't see our situations as equal. You've been direct in your insults to me, while I've not directed anything at you. Even when you came down on me hard, I didn't attack back. You had to come looking into my chats with other people to find a response. As for "cesspool" - go into any RWED thread and count the number of attack posts versus discussion posts, and put together a case that it isn't a cesspool of animosity. The place is what it is. That's not your fault, I never said it was. The fact that you're so quick to take this as a judgement of yourself is all about what's in your head, not mine. (And please don't speak of me insulting "folks". This is about you and me. If anyone else has problems with me, they will talk to me themselves. It's not your job.)

Truly, the cesspool situation is all of our fault - including mine and Chrisisall's, who I was actually talking to when I said that. If I was pointing fingers at anyone, it was at him and the one he was arguing puppy aerodynamics with - and myself. I've been quite up front that I've taken part in the bad attitudes in RWED, but you seem to have missed that. Maybe it doesn't fit this image you've formed of me as the self-righteous "I do no wrong" bitch. So let me stress - I recognize that a vindictive, overly defensive side of me comes out in these threads. I'm trying to change.

Believe it or not, I am a person to work it out when I'm wrong, to own up to it and try to do better. But I won't admit to something I don't see. I'll discuss it, sure as hell, and I'll hear your side. I expect the same respect in return.

So again I tell you straight up and with no hidden agenda - I don't see that the tit for tat going on between you and me has been equal. I can't see your hurt as my fault. You've put your own spin on my posts, seeing insults that aren't there - when I'm not even talking to you! You take all kinds of affront at my tone, although I'm milder by far than most of RWED. Why do I get to you so badly? I don't know. I suspect that I didn't kiss the toes of your smoking habit the way you'd have liked, and that set something off in you.

Now, I've had addicts in my life, and your response to my lack of kowtowing was familar. (Certainly, I'm projecting my past experiences on you, and that's not your fault and not your responsibilty. I apologize if it seems I'm painting you as someone you're not. I don't mean to. I'm not calling you an addict, just saying that you're treating me the way addicts have in the past. See the difference?)

To me, it wasn't only your explosion, but the way you apologized as if you deserved congratulations for doing it. It made it all about you, and felt like a textbook abusive situation - you attacked me out of the blue, but it's my fault for being annoying and talking in a superior tone (when I wasn't even talking to you!) You apologize so you're golden, but I'm still a villain for not - what? What is it you want? You want me to abase myself to you in some way? Admit that I deserve everything you hand out because you find my posts unpleasant?

A civil answer is appreciated. And please, not a quick one. I imagine your first reponse to this might not be pretty. Please have a smoke and read again - there may be less fightin' words in this post than you see the first time through. I certainly don't mean to put any in. I really, really, don't like to fight. I like to *discuss*


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Thursday, March 6, 2008 9:02 AM

FREMDFIRMA


Seriously, I give up...

I realize it's not your intent to be levelling insult, and imma just grit my teeth and leave it at that, ok ?

But in the future, try to ponder the effect your words will have on others when you call them abusive, self-righteous, bitter, disrespectful, unhealthy, stupid jerks and meanies who's portion of the site is a cesspool.

If you don't realize the reaction to that might be negative, there's really not a lot I can say to you about it.

So imma just file it as unintentional and move along, so as not to needlessly prolong a discussion that shouldn't even be here, cause it's obviously not going to resolve anything.

Besides, dancing is a far better use of yer time than arguing over a rather petty disagreement in the first place - let it go, and go have fun.

-Frem

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Thursday, March 6, 2008 9:17 AM

MAL4PREZ


Quote:

Originally posted by Fremdfirma:
But in the future, try to ponder the effect your words will have on others when you call them abusive, self-righteous, bitter, disrespectful, unhealthy, stupid jerks and meanies who's portion of the site is a cesspool.

And you might consider that if you walk like a duck and talk like a duck, you might get called a duck now and then.

Quote:

cause it's obviously not going to resolve anything.
Agreed. Peace.


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Thursday, March 6, 2008 12:31 PM

LWAVES


"The greatest trick the Devil ever pulled was convincing Browncoats that RWED was a good place."

"Well, I've seen the Devil, and the only thing that scares me is the RWED."



"I don't believe in suicide, but if you'd like to try it it might cheer me up to watch."

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Thursday, March 6, 2008 4:15 PM

XRAFTERMANX


This is quite enjoyable.

Precisely what I thought would happen.

Keep going though, I'll check back in a few days to laugh some more.

Remember to keep a civil tongue please.

You got a job, we can do it, don't much care what it is. ~Detroit Browncoats~

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