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I said I wouldn't do this...(Not Firefly related)

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:35 AM

QUIETSERENITY


But I just found out that my Mom has a tumor, and I'm feeling a little lost. I said I wouldn't think about it, but I just broke a dish and burned my hand pulling dinner out of the oven, so I'm obviously thinking about it.

I didn't want to bring it up to anyone, but I'm upset and you guys are always so supportive, so here I am.

That's all.

Mal: You know, you ain't quite right.
River: It's a popular theory.


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Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:39 AM

YINYANG

You were busy trying to get yourself lit on fire. It happens.




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Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:47 AM

SHINY


I'm so sorry QS! Just know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Browncoats got yer back!

{{{ QS }}}

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:47 AM

FUTUREMRSFILLION


Quiet

NOT thinking about it doesn't help - just don't dwell. Find out all the info you can, so you feel informed.

Hug your mom and have hope

There are plenty of hugs here for you!




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Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:49 AM

NVGHOSTRIDER


It is Browncoat related so don't fret. I just wish there was more we could do for folks in need.
Guess I'll shut up because you may need to vent rather than listen. That our job.

Hugs



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Thursday, August 17, 2006 12:10 PM

WASHSYOUNGERSEXIERBR

Inter Arma Enim Silent Leges


When My grandma got diagnosed i found it really helped just being there with my family.

Dont try to ignore it cos itll just build up. Let it out a little at a time.

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 12:21 PM

BETHERS0921


Aww sweetie, I'm really sorry to hear that. I'm not going to tell you that I know how you feel because I don't. But I might have some sort of an idea. My mom had breast cancer a while back, and it's hard. But just know that all of us are here for ya. And if you ever need anything (like an ear to listen or cookies or something) my AIM is the same as my username on here. Don't hesitate! I make some pretty sweet ass chocolate chip cookies. :-)

-Beth

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 12:22 PM

FOLLOWMAL




Quiet,

You are a member of this family.. we're here for you to share troubles with. That's what families do.

Please know that you're in our thoughts and prayers and that we're here for you anytime you want to talk or you just want a hug.

FMF is right. When my Dad had his stroke it helped me to cope with what was happening when I was fully informed about what he was going thru.
Stay close to your Mom and give her lots of hugs and look for ways to move forward to help her get better.

And rely on us any time you need us. We'll be here. This ship is your home.

{{{{QuietSerenity}}}}


"You hold. Hold 'til I get back." Mal

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 1:18 PM

LITTLEALBATROSS29


I know we've never crossed paths,but we're both Browncoats,so I just had to lend some support.
My Mom has been sick all my life & I know it's not an easy thing to cope with.Stay strong, fly true,and remember to laugh, it helps alot.

Best of luck to you & yours.
And remember ,if you can't walk you crawl,and if you can't crawl...well you know the rest.

Bryce

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 1:42 PM

HIEI


I know how you feel doctors found a tumor in my mom too. Just spend time with family, research, and don't dwell or obecess like most people do. It's been said befor but we're all browncoats here we're all family.

"A man of honor, in a den of theives

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Thursday, August 17, 2006 1:48 PM

CYBERSNARK


*hugs*

What everybody else said. Keep informed, keep involved, stay near to your mom. Sometimes all we can do to help is to hold someone's hand. Sometimes that's enough.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 12:29 AM

PHOENIXROSE

You think you know--what's to come, what you are. You haven't even begun.





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Friday, August 18, 2006 12:36 AM

DESKTOPHIPPIE


You're in my thoughts. Stay stong, warrior woman.




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Friday, August 18, 2006 1:10 AM

CHEWIE


I'm very very sorry dear. Your in my thoughts and I'll light a candle for you.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 2:13 AM

MAVOURNEEN


Cancer stinks. It really does. My thoughts are with you now.
As far as not being Firefly related, FollowMal said it best. You are part of the family and that's what we're here for!
Get informed, ask the questions that need to be asked.


"Have you ever been with a Warrior Woman?"

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Friday, August 18, 2006 2:21 AM

DEEPGIRL187


I'm very sorry to hear about your mother. Hearing a realtive is sick, especially with cancer, can be very hard to deal with. But never be afraid to look for support here. We're your family, and family is always there for each other.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 2:37 AM

AURAPTOR

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Quote:

Originally posted by QuietSerenity:
But I just found out that my Mom has a tumor, and I'm feeling a little lost. I said I wouldn't think about it, but I just broke a dish and burned my hand pulling dinner out of the oven, so I'm obviously thinking about it.

I didn't want to bring it up to anyone, but I'm upset and you guys are always so supportive, so here I am.

That's all.

Mal: You know, you ain't quite right.
River: It's a popular theory.




Been there. Know the feelin'.

You hold. YOU HOLD!



People love a happy ending. So every episode, I will explain once again that I don't like people. And then Mal will shoot someone. Someone we like. And their puppy. - Joss

" They don't like it when you shoot at 'em. I worked that out myself. "

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Friday, August 18, 2006 2:42 AM

TRISTAN


We are here for you, if nothing else but to talk...I hope that helps!

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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:12 AM

BROWNCOAT1

May have been the losing side. Still not convinced it was the wrong one.


QuietSerenity,

I know exactly how you feel.

You see, my wife has breast cancer. We have been battling it for years. We have been through the surgeries, the treatments, the waiting, the praying, all of it. We don't let it ruin our lives or control us though.

My wife still leads a very full life and she is a survivor. When she was diagnosed we educated ourselves on her condition, what we could expect, the treatments, options, and what we could do to help alleviate the condition. We decided to take control, not let it control us.

This is what you and your mother need to do. Control the situation, don't let it control you. Educate yourself and meet it head on. Trying to not think about it will only wind up causing more problems down the road.

We're all here for you. You have the prayers and well wishes of us all.

Keep flyin'!

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"May have been the losing side. Still not convinced it was the wrong one."

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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:18 AM

FUTUREMRSFILLION


Bumping

Sending more hugs to the you!




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"We don't fear the reaper"


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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:30 AM

DARKFLY


I’m sorry to hear it,your be in my thoughs.Don’t ever say that this isn’t related to Firefly cause we’re Browncoats & Browncoats are family so that means your family is our family.




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Friday, August 18, 2006 5:14 AM

QUIETSERENITY


Thank you so much for all of your kind words and support. They helped more than I can say.

I took your advice and did some research, and Mom wants me to go with her to her next doctor's appointment. I was too upset to say yesterday, but I'm really very upset about how she found out..

She had called the Doctor's office for some follow-up, and the nurse said:

"Oh, you just had a baby!"
"No..."
"Oh, you're pregnant!"
"No...did you even look at my chart? Go get it and read it to me."
"Okay, everything here looks good, oh, your tumor is 6-7 centimeters, so you'll just have to call back and see what the doctor wants you to do."

At which point, my mom is sitting there at work going "Tumor? What tumor?" All the nurse said was "Sorry," and then hung up.

Thankfully my mom, sister and I all live here in the same town, so we see each other often. I'll keep you updated, and thank you again, so much.

Mal: You know, you ain't quite right.
River: It's a popular theory.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 5:24 AM

CHRISISALL


Be positive. A positive approach to any sickness enhances the immune system, and increases the liklyhood of a desired outcome.
Try to keep laughter in you family, especially now.

For what it's worth, my thoughts are with ya.

Chrisisall

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Friday, August 18, 2006 5:28 AM

MAGDALENA

"No power in the 'verse can stop me!"


Hi Quiet Serenity

I have had a very difficult day and wasn't even going to make it on to the computer at all... (it's 1.20am here) but despite my common sense telling me to get to bed I knew I had to touch base with my Browncoat family - I always feel better after spending a bit of time here - and here you are needing us as much as we need you!

Everything that's been said goes doubly for me - be strong! Take time to adjust! Inform yourself!
And as was said...sometimes - You just HOLD! I am so glad your Mum and sister live close by.

I am sending my love and hugs {{QS}} from Australia & keeping you all in my prayers!

I hope you know to come here, on the boat, anytime you need your Shiney Family! We love you for who you are and what you bring here too!

Love and strength - Magdalena x x x




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Friday, August 18, 2006 5:39 AM

LOSTDOG


That's terrible news. So very sorry. We are here if you need to talk about whatever. I know it has got to be hard for you to think straight right now. Hang in there.

"Love. Can know all the math in the 'verse but take a boat in the air that you don't love? She'll shake you off just as sure as a turn in the worlds. Love keeps her in the air when she oughtta fall down.....tell you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens...makes her a home."

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Friday, August 18, 2006 8:20 AM

CYBERSNARK


Quote:

Originally posted by QuietSerenity:
She had called the Doctor's office for some follow-up, and the nurse said:

"Oh, you just had a baby!"
"No..."
"Oh, you're pregnant!"
"No...did you even look at my chart? Go get it and read it to me."
"Okay, everything here looks good, oh, your tumor is 6-7 centimeters, so you'll just have to call back and see what the doctor wants you to do."

At which point, my mom is sitting there at work going "Tumor? What tumor?" All the nurse said was "Sorry," and then hung up.

Oh, wo de tien ah.

Does this remind anyone of the doctor Simon "helped" in Ariel? Just unbelievable.

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We applied the cortical electrodes but were unable to get a neural reaction from either patient.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 8:48 AM

ARCADIA


I know we don't really talk much on the boards, but (((hugs))).

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Friday, August 18, 2006 8:52 AM

WHIMSICALNBRAINPAN


Well I'm glad you did do it QuietSerenity. I know from personal experience that the Browncoats on this site are supportive and love to reach out with words of encouragement. You have our love and support. I will say a prayer for you and your Mom.

Hugs and es

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Friday, August 18, 2006 9:44 AM

KURYA


Hi there.
Dont know you at all, but just want to send some postive thoughts yours and your moms way. Big hugs too! Browncoats are family, and we are all here to support you, if not in person, at least in spirit!
All the love.
Prakash

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Friday, August 18, 2006 10:19 AM

KELKHIL


I have not as of yet crossed paths with you but I wanted to give you my support as well.

Everyone has said pretty much what I have to say...

Get informed, Laughter does help. The human body can do supernatural things when it has too but not if you give up.

Hoping for the best for you and yours.

(((QS)))

Kelkhil

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Friday, August 18, 2006 10:35 AM

STILLSHINY


Thoughts & prayers.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 10:38 AM

EMBERS


I hope you, and your Mom, are doing okay.
My thoughts and prayers are with you....
I hope you can keep a positive attitude because that will help to support your Mom.
*hugs*

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Friday, August 18, 2006 2:49 PM

TRAVELER


It's good to talk. Follow FutureMrsFillion's advice. What ever your interests are keep busy. Bake a thousand brownies or repair that closet door that squeaks. Busy hands help. And type. You have a thread here. Talk about anything you want.

With Love;

From a fellow browncoat.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:36 PM

VINTERDRAKEN


I know excactly how you feel.. (just read my blogs if you dont believe me). I find that the best thing to do is to try to accept what is happening around you, then gather people you like around you and do something fun, Isolating one self never helps. Most important though is to let your mom know how much you care and love her.

You can’t stop the Signal.
Keep spreading the word about Firefly!

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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:36 PM

VINTERDRAKEN


I know excactly how you feel.. (just read my blogs if you dont believe me). I find that the best thing to do is to try to accept what is happening around you, then gather people you like around you and do something fun, Isolating one self never helps. Most important though is to let your mom know how much you care and love her.

You can’t stop the Signal.
Keep spreading the word about Firefly!

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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:36 PM

VINTERDRAKEN


I know excactly how you feel.. (just read my blogs if you dont believe me). I find that the best thing to do is to try to accept what is happening around you, then gather people you like around you and do something fun, Isolating one self never helps. Most important though is to let your mom know how much you care and love her.

You can’t stop the Signal.
Keep spreading the word about Firefly!

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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:36 PM

VINTERDRAKEN


I know excactly how you feel.. (just read my blogs if you dont believe me). I find that the best thing to do is to try to accept what is happening around you, then gather people you like around you and do something fun, Isolating one self never helps. Most important though is to let your mom know how much you care and love her.

You can’t stop the Signal.
Keep spreading the word about Firefly!

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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:36 PM

VINTERDRAKEN


I know excactly how you feel.. (just read my blogs if you dont believe me). I find that the best thing to do is to try to accept what is happening around you, then gather people you like around you and do something fun, Isolating one self never helps. Most important though is to let your mom know how much you care and love her.

You can’t stop the Signal.
Keep spreading the word about Firefly!

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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:36 PM

VINTERDRAKEN


I know excactly how you feel.. (just read my blogs if you dont believe me). I find that the best thing to do is to try to accept what is happening around you, then gather people you like around you and do something fun, Isolating one self never helps. Most important though is to let your mom know how much you care and love her.

You can’t stop the Signal.
Keep spreading the word about Firefly!

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Friday, August 18, 2006 3:41 PM

GIRLASKEW


Can't have enough happy thoughts and warm feelings coming to you and your mom, so I thought I'd add some.
Happy thoughts and warm feelings to you.
And know we are here, one big famiy.

"...once you've been on Serenity, you never leave...you just learn how to live there."
If you see me online, say hi. YIM=Girlaskew!

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Friday, August 18, 2006 4:53 PM

JOSSISAGOD




Hey, you are part of this family, so, as has been stated, whatever's on your mind, IS related to us. I'm sorry I can't sympathize(however, I am a sympathetic ear,so I sure can listen), but I'm always here, so, whatever you need, I can virtually grant.

*JIAG, hands QuietSerenity any drink of their choosing*

I can only say what the others have stated. Keep informed and keep busy to take your mind off of things, I know things SUCK right now, but they'll get better with time. Remember, your internet family is ALWAYS here for support.

I'll be sending positive energy/thoughts/prayers to you and your mother.

JOSSIS(Most Definitely)AGOD
"Look at me, I'm STUPID!" The Doctor.

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Friday, August 18, 2006 5:02 PM

KAELE


QuietSerenity, I have to admit, I'm going through the same thing right now as I type this. Only we're a little further down the line.

My mom was diagnosed with a large tumor in her breast late last year. When she told me, my heart just broke. In 2002, I was recovering from surgery myself and in order to take my mind off of my own problems, I began driving my grandmother to her radiation treatments for HER breast cancer. Years before, my other grandmother had been going through her chemo and radiation. So when my mom was diagnosed, it did not sit well.

I went to my husband and cried. He told me the most wonderful thing to help me through it, because he had been through it before when his mother had Hodgkins (sp?). Hubby told me never to cry in front of my mother, that I was always welcome to cry in his arms but I needed to be strong for her. I'm not saying this is right for you, but it worked for me. I could remain supportive and held together but could always find a safe place to wind down and release my own emotions.

My mother went through three surgeries and began her chemo. I took her to her appointments even when I spent four hours that day just driving her around with my two cranky kids in the car. We kept things as routine as possible and let her do as much or as little as she felt capable of doing. To cheer her up and as a special treat, we attended a convention nearby and got to meet Nathan Fillion. She proudly walked around showing off her bald head and Nathan commented how he liked that she and I had the same name. We partied hard and got to relax in between her chemo.

In her determination, she had told my kids that we would be going to Disney World this year. She scheduled us to go in the down time between her chemo treatments and the beginning of her rounds of radiation. We went this summer and had a blast because my children got to go to Disney with their entire family, including their aunt, uncles and grandparents.

Now, even in between her daily radiation, she is going back to work and STILL makes time for her grandchildren. Her hair is coming back and she is looking healthier (though still tired) than she has in over two years.

It will not be easy nor will it be pretty. If your mom goes through chemo, it'll get downright disheartening. But be there for her, take her to her appointments so that she knows that she doesn't have to do this alone. And YOU don't have to do this alone with us here.

Anytime you want to talk, please let me know. E-mail me (jedi_kaele@yahoo.com)and if you need someone to talk to, I'd be happy to listen. :)

~Kaele

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Friday, August 18, 2006 5:32 PM

NCBROWNCOAT


My Mom is one year out from her radiation treatments for neck cancer and she still has a feeding tube as her weight hasn't rebounded yet.

Keep yourself informed and try to keep to a routine or develop a new one if you need to. If she'll let you go to the doctor's office with her and take a notepad. Both of you'll think of all types of questions at the oddest times and this way you can ask the Dr. Also, write down his/her responses. Many a time I forgot what the Dr said and referred to my notes.

Another thing I found helpful was exercise. Get out for at least half an hour a day. I found walking outside helped me alot. It was the best therapy I've ever had. If you're a nature lover listen to the birds and animals as you walk. If you're like me, put very up songs on your MP3 player-the Firefly and Serenity soundtracks are great too.

Also find someone that you can talk to that will listen-like us Browncoasts. We're all here for you and you and your Mom are in our thoughts.


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Saturday, August 19, 2006 5:09 AM

FIZZIX


As ever when anyone I don't know comes up with a problem, I try to shot them I care. And I do care, because on this boat, there's a crew, and there's a family. Crew comes and goes, but if they stay long enough, they become family. You are one of those people, and as such, I impart a Japanese legend to you.

Everyone has heard of the paper crane. Most likely, you've learned how to fold one in school. The legend is that if one folds 1000 paper cranes, a miracle can happen. For you, I shall refresh my memory of how to make a paper crane.

I have made one during the process of this post. Where I shall store them I do not know, but I shall try to make 1000 paper cranes for you.

If others endeavor to do the same, I have a website that explains it exellently, if you can ignore that it's an ancient kid's morning show hosted by Levar Burton (Geordi Laforge from ST:TNG), it's here. http://pbskids.org/readingrainbow/heroes_and_hope/crane.html

One crane, 999 to go. Show's how much I care.

/|\/|\/|\/|\/|\/|\/|\/|\/|\/|\/|\/|\/|\/|\/|\
May not be smart, and it may not please you, but you're definitely gonna see what I have to say.

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Saturday, August 19, 2006 5:25 AM

MAGDALENA

"No power in the 'verse can stop me!"


That is a beautiful idea Fizzix - I will look for some paper and start making paper cranes too... I'll call them Quiet Serenity's hope and maybe with others joining in we'll have 1,000 paper cranes in no time...

The story of Sadako Sassaki is one that deeply touched me when I was researching a piece on the atomic bombs, dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki, that I was writing last year.

I have printed that disagram you directed me to Fizzix... 1,000 paper cranes coming up!

Still loving you and your family from where I am, Quiet Serenity! Will keep my eyes open to see how you're all doing!

Much love - Magdalena x x x




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Saturday, August 19, 2006 6:24 AM

QUIETSERENITY


Fizzix, you have no idea how much that means to me, that you would think of that. This thread has been a wonderful support system for me over the past couple of days, and it helps me to be strong for my Mom, knowing I can come here and I don't have to be. I appreciate you, all of you, and this is more than I ever could have asked for.

Thank you.

Mal: You know, you ain't quite right.
River: It's a popular theory.

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Saturday, August 19, 2006 6:36 AM

KANEMAN


I hope that things turn out well for your mother. The scariest word in the 'verse is cancer. Remember, not all tumors are cancerous. If it turns out to be, give your mother support. Cancer does not always win. And, if anyone can "take it on" I am sure it's your mom. Think about that. Good luck

A Troll with a heart

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Saturday, August 19, 2006 3:51 PM

PENGUIN




I have been where you are with your mom...hug your mom, keep the faith, and give her all your strength.


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Saturday, August 19, 2006 6:17 PM

FLORALBUNNY


{{{{{{{{{{{{QS}}}}}}}}}}}}

There's nothing I can add to the comfort
and fine advice already posted by these
fine browncoats.

Adding a candle to the row that's up for
all the sick folk I know about.





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Sunday, August 20, 2006 11:00 PM

RMMC


QS, I'm adding my good thoughts and prayers for your mom and you.

{{{{{{{{{{QuietSerenity}}}}}}}}

When it comes to things like this, ain't no such animal as 'off-topic.'

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RMMC

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Sunday, August 20, 2006 11:49 PM

6IXSTRINGJACK


I'm so sorry to hear that. I haven't spoken with my mom for almost 5 years now, and she hadn't spoken to her parents for almost as long. My grandfather just passed away yesterday in his sleep and she never got the chance to make up with him. I hope that one day I can reconnect with her before I have to live with what I'm sure she's going through now. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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Sunday, August 20, 2006 11:54 PM

DANCINGNEKO


*following said warmly, full of caring*
QuietSerenity, you giant silly!
*hugs*
I agree with everyone else. We're all a big browncoat family. If you need us to listen and offer support, we will.

I also agree with dealing with this in armed with as much knowldege as you can. Try to spend as much time with your mom as you can.

My other suggestions: try to keep a log of information so that you have what you need written down (what the doctor says, how your mom reacts to medicines/chemo, etc.), and let your mom's doctor know how she found out about her tumor (clueless nurse reading it to her over the phone).

Above all, take time for yourself. Yes, it is your mom that has the tumor. That doesn't mean that it doesn't affect you, and burning yourself (or anyone else who is helping to care for her) out only makes it harder for everyone else.

Remember, if you need us, we'll be here.


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Monday, August 21, 2006 12:05 AM

DESKTOPHIPPIE


*re-learns how to fold paper cranes* One down, 999 to go...

It's been said many times, but I'm adding my voice to the general chorus here. Sometimes you need support from people not in the immediate situation. Online forums are perfect for that, especially this one as everyone here is pretty much a family. You're in all our thoughts, and we'll be sending lots of positive vibes to your mum. If we can get a cancelled show turned into a movie then we can easily sort your mum out

*BIG HUGS over the net*




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Monday, August 21, 2006 6:09 PM

LIVLASS


qs, this is kaele's mom. i have breast cancer, a type called dcis. i'm now into radiation treatments. i went thru 5 months of chemo. be there for your mom. it helped a whole lot to have my family support me when i was feeling so down. if she must go thru chemo, there may be days that she can't eat. try bland foods for her- potato soup, plain breads, soft (bavarian) pretzels if they're in your area. try to get her to keep a diary. it helps, because you get what is known as "chemo brain". your memory shorts out at times. any questions, just email k or me - livlass@aol. like she said, i showed off my bald head at moonlight rising. it was fun! and i got so many supportive comments. that's one thing you should pass on to your mom - don't hide it. let people know you are alive and fighting!give her a hug for me. if she's online, tell her to email me if she has any questions, it may help her to know someone else is going thru it. i met a man at mr who was going to start chemo when he got home, and i think i helped him by telling him what to expect. i hope so. you are not alone, we will help.

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Monday, August 21, 2006 6:31 PM

BAD2VERSE


Find out all you can about your mom's condition. I'm SURROUNDED by Doctor friends and family Daily, and if you have any any ANY questions they have no problem giving you the straight scoop... you can PM or E-mail me and I'll grab one as they go by... "Fear" comes from lack of knowledge.. and "Lack of knowledge" is 100% curable.

We all tend to worry about our parents, My mom is in such bad shape (50+ years with crippling Rheumatoid Arthritis, and all the surgeries it's lead to before "Remecade" came out), but she gets her poor broken body out of bed EVERY day and Carries on, and if she catches me feeling sorry for her, she winks and says, "I'll outlive YOU, Son".. I'd bet your mom is the same way.. but we can't help but worry.

From what I've seen of this place, it's a family, I ONLY frequent places that "feel" like family, and it looks like you have LOTS of support right here.. talk about it, it helps, even if it's just typing it out to get things straight in your own mind.

Without Family, Friends, and hope, things go from Bad2Worse...




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