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Wednesday, November 2, 2011 6:29 PM

BYTEMITE


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You are warily tolerated here.


Yay!

Wishimay, I think honestly I may have goddamn near everything. So I'll say that also sounds like me, including getting cramps in hands, feet, and jaw muscles from clenching them. But ultimately I can't say definitively anything one way or another.

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Wednesday, November 2, 2011 6:50 PM

1KIKI

Goodbye, kind world (George Monbiot) - In common with all those generations which have contemplated catastrophe, we appear to be incapable of understanding what confronts us.


Byte

I've felt the same way. Maybe som'a this, som'a that, som'a something else. There may not be a category for me, or you, yet. (WishIMay I used to think I was crazy as well.) At this point I just go - well, I deal with it.

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Wednesday, November 2, 2011 6:50 PM

1KIKI

Goodbye, kind world (George Monbiot) - In common with all those generations which have contemplated catastrophe, we appear to be incapable of understanding what confronts us.


OH the dratted double!

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Wednesday, November 2, 2011 6:54 PM

RIONAEIRE

Beir bua agus beannacht


That is the nicest I've ever seen Kiki be, cool!

"A completely coherant River means writers don't deliver" KatTaya

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Wednesday, November 2, 2011 6:58 PM

MAGONSDAUGHTER


Yes I was thinking that you might be a bit aspy, as we affectionately call it in our family.

Sounds like you are a bit too honest and reflective to be a sociopath and I certainly think you are down on yourself. But if you find it a useful label....???? I'm certainly not going to argue.

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Wednesday, November 2, 2011 7:32 PM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


BYTE: B12. Please, take some!

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Wednesday, November 2, 2011 11:15 PM

HKCAVALIER


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Hi ever'body,

Time for a new tack.

How's about can we think in terms of disease and health? Is it at all possible that there is an optimal mental health that is common to all human beings that includes a functional empathetic response? Can we even agree that, barring some kind of maladaptive weirdness or dastardly intervention, human creatures do not themselves enjoy being murdered and/or raped? And if that is true, then people with a functional empathetic response would not feel fine about murdering and raping their neighbors (even when social forces, i.e.: their own psychological surival overrides their empathy)? Can I at least get a mumbled and unenthusiastic "hrm, I suppose so" from the opposition? Can any of you hard science fans agree that mental health is not purely culturally based (any more than, say, cancer is)?



I've never said that anyone enjoys being raped or murdered. What strange stuff you guys spout in an endeavour to prove your own belief system

Hey Magonsdaughter,

You really do talk as if you and I have been hashing this out together for days, when I've barely talked to you or, honestly, read much of your contribution to this thread before you blasted me. I wasn't really fixated on your arguments. They seemed pretty tame, not much to argue with there (1kiki on the other hand...well). The distinctions you and Byte were trading back and forth just didn't move me. Really, my primary interest in what you've said in this thread are those occasions when you've completely misrepresented my thoughts and opinions. It's frustrating.

And you continue to be pretty insulting and dismissive. Is that your intent? "Spout" is a heavily derogatory characterization. And I know better than to try to prove--or disprove--anyone's "belief system." Your characterization of my intentions and methods is so far off the mark, I don't know what to say.

Why you feel the need to tell me that you never said that anyone enjoys being raped or murdered, I just don't know. And so what if ya did? There are people who have enjoyed both. How is that germane?

The interesting question to my mind is: can we say that such enjoyment is unhealthy, or "wrong" in some objective sense, or is all just cultural? To me, it's kind of a no-brainer--of course we can, naturally. But, my sense from what's been said in this thread is that folks on your side of this discussion would feel obligated to make all kinds of qualifying statements to the effect that, ultimately, there is no objectively unhealthy (wrong) thing in this world.

I can understand that as a scientist in the laboratory that kind of neutrality and skepticism of all truths could be very useful, laudable, but to espouse such "know-nothingism" in our actual lives seems kinda nutty. You seem to say that you have your cultural biases and you like them and live by them, but if you don't think those biases are "true" in some larger sense, why would you hold to them?

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Mental health, and by extension, mental disorder seem to be major human phenomena. In terms of animal behavior we humans get into some pretty unprecedented insanity. It amazes me just how much mental derangement a human animal can tolerate and still function/survive/make babies. From the standpoint of species survival, humans can tolerate a mountain of psychological guck without it having any noticeable impact.

I'd disagree that it was ONLY a human phenomenon.

This kind of misreading drives me nuts. Basic reading comprehension. I never said it was "ONLY" a human phenomenon. If I'd wanted to say that, I coulda said that. I'm talking about humans as animals, among other animals, other animals that suffer mental disturbances. I was suggesting that humans both suffer from a lot more and more complicated derangements and we seem to be pretty well-suited to weathering our psychic storms, oddly enough. We can tolerate a whole lot o' crazy and keep on keeping on. Other animals, not so much. A lot of animals simply die in the kind of "captivity" we take for granted in our modern lives.

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I'd have to say that this is where Frem's discussion becomes very interesting and pertinent. Animals that are not allowed to be as their species intended often suffer from similar neurosis as humans, in so far as we can measure by their behaviour. That has been well documented in zoos, and why they now try to recreat more natural conditions for them to live in. And why there as so many over pampered neurotic pooches out there. Cesare Romero is very clear that dogs are happiest and sanest when they are treated as dogs.

And I think that Frem is correct in that it applies to people as well. Being a social species means we should be living together and caring for our young together. Social isolation and disconnection and poor parenting by inexperienced, isolated and disconnected parents in a major contributor to mental illness. And unfortunately that doens't impinge on our ability to have babies but it does have a major impact on our functioning as a society and I believe we see a lot of the result of that now. Will that impact on our survival as a species? You can't actually rule it out.

This part here is entirely sensible, and congruent with my own thoughts on the matter. But I gotta say that you do seem to suggest that there is a natural right and wrong way for humans to live and that's all I've been suggesting.

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But just because the species can survive stuff like serial killing and pedophile rings doesn't nullify their status as maladaptive and disordered behavior, does it? So bringing up evolution in a discussion of mental health strikes me at the very least to be irrelevant--just as so much of mental health has proven to be irrelevant when it comes to species survival.

As conscious beings, we are no longer obsesses with mere individual survival or subject to the vagaries of the evolutionary process. Humans now can benefit other humans on the other side of the planet without regard to our own immediate survival and many of us, across all cultures, put our efforts toward doing so. Are y'all gonna put such humanitarian interests on the same footing as war and genocide, just because neither makes a dent in the gross human population?



Because of course we hardlined, coldhearted, amoral, inhuman posters are all in support of war, genocide and serial killings just because we understand values to be learnt rather than innate and because we understand that human physiology, psychology and behaviour to have evolved rather than been created in some fairytale universe?????

So weird. It's like I'm talking to two different people. I don't know how to begin unraveling the multi-faceted misunderstanding of my position you have there in that sentence. Not talking about any "fairytale universe," just this one here. Just suggesting that concepts of right and wrong have their basis in reality.

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I'd say that truly understanding ourselves as humans, rather than holding onto some romantic ideal, as well as accepting that values are learnt rather than morality being fixed places us in a very good position for choosing what sort of society we can live in, don't you?

I hardly know what to make of this conclusion of yours. I wonder how you get here from what you said above (emphasis mine): "Being a social species means we SHOULD BE living together and caring for our young together. Social isolation and disconnection and poor parenting by inexperienced, isolated and disconnected parents IS A MAJOR CONTRIBUTOR to mental illness. And UNFORTUNATELY that doens't impinge on our ability to have babies but it does HAVE A MAJOR IMPACT on our functioning as a society and I believe we see a lot of the result of that now." You use a lot of valuing language that suggests that there's something kinda-sorta objective about what humans should and shouldn't be doing with ourselves. That's all I've ever meant to say. I just call that "the truth" as best we humans have come to know it. But because I believe this, as it seems you do, I live in a fairytale universe? Really, really strange.

Oh, and btw:


Cesar Romero


Cesar Millan

HKCavalier

Hey, hey, hey, don't be mean. We don't have to be mean, because, remember, no matter where you go, there you are.

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Thursday, November 3, 2011 2:34 AM

CANTTAKESKY


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Originally posted by HKCavalier:
I just call that "the truth" as best we humans have come to know it. But because I believe this, as it seems you do, I live in a fairytale universe? Really, really strange.

I think the major splitting point is not the values themselves, but where the values come from.

If you say most humans are born with certain values (not ALL values), you're living in a fairytale universe.

If you agree with her that humans are born with a value-free blank slate, and then internalize value systems from their environment only, you are scientifically literate and based in reality.

It doesn't seem to matter if one doesn't believe in fairies or fairytales, that one subscribes to the theory of evolution, and that one has stated that innate values exist because humans have evolved to be born with value-instincts (perhaps precisely because we are social creatures and certain value-instincts make us more likely to be accepted by our "pack").


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Never be deceived that the rich will allow you to vote away their wealth. -- Lucy Parsons (1853-1942, labor organizer, anarcho-communist, orator)


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Thursday, November 3, 2011 7:03 AM

HKCAVALIER


If that's the case, CTS, this is all kinds of depressing and Anthony is right (again). It would be as if I'd said mice have a natural ability to see (owing to them having two eyes, and such), and someone taking me to task because mice are BORN BLIND!!! Or having somebody post a link to some mice that were BORN WITHOUT OPTIC NERVES!

And then we have Byte declaring that she was "born without empathy or morality!" What the heck? Join the club, right? Does this all boil down to misunderstandings about how consciousness develops? Aye me.

HKCavalier

Hey, hey, hey, don't be mean. We don't have to be mean, because, remember, no matter where you go, there you are.

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Thursday, November 3, 2011 11:08 AM

MAGONSDAUGHTER


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Originally posted by HKCavalier:

Oh, and btw:


Cesar Romero


Cesar Millan

HKCavalier




Ha ha> Oops.

As for the rest of your post, haven't got the time to read it thoroughly. You are a sensitive one, aren't you? Apologies if I have offended. It was my intent to respond the best I could around the arguments you and others have made about an innate morality. It wasn't meant to sound like a personal attack. It was, however, a response to a number of posts (and not just by you) where those of use who don't believe in innate morality have been described as cold, hardlined, amoral, and lacking in humanity. Kind of strong just because of a particular position that we have taken, don't you think?

Anyway, have hashed this one to DEATH.


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Thursday, November 3, 2011 11:31 AM

CANTTAKESKY


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Originally posted by HKCavalier:
If that's the case, CTS, this is all kinds of depressing and Anthony is right (again). It would be as if I'd said mice have a natural ability to see (owing to them having two eyes, and such), and someone taking me to task because mice are BORN BLIND!!! Or having somebody post a link to some mice that were BORN WITHOUT OPTIC NERVES!

I hope I am not the one who made you depressed. I was just spouting what I interpret to be Magon's position. Maybe I'm wrong.

This is the way I see it.

Being a Catholic (albeit a very bad one), I find the concept of Trinity an interesting model. I see humans as triune (3 in 1) beings: body, mind, spirit/soul. We have the physical us, the mental/psychological us, and then the spiritual us. To be healthy, we have to feed and nurture all 3 aspects.

The first 2 are sort of obvious and self-explanatory. The third is where we tend to neglect ourselves. In fact, some people would deny that the spirit/soul exists at all.

By spirit/soul, I don't mean some religious aspect of self. Atheists feel spirit/soul too. I mean an awareness or awakening that goes beyond physical sensation or psychological understanding. Some might call it inspiration. Some might call it The Force. Some might call it an unconscious connection with nature. I don't really care how each individual chooses to describe it. We tend to feed this aspect with art, music, philosophy, religion/faith, or acts of kindness towards people/animals/nature.

I personally think that innate morality is seeded in both our physical brains and our spirits. That is, I believe there is innate morality in our hardware/neurology (neuroethics) as well as our need to be connected with the universe. Maybe the mind is more of the moral blank slate that is waiting to be filled by society, as Magon says. Maybe that is why we are filled with conflicts both internally and externally. Mind/social morality fighting with brain morality fighting with spiritual morality--multiplied by the number of individuals around us.

There is some interesting stuff in neuroethics, as explored here:

http://reason.com/archives/2007/11/21/the-theory-of-moral-neuroscien
http://discovermagazine.com/2007/may/the-discover-interview-marc-hause
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This is not fairytales. This is about the physical brain.

However, part of my belief in innate morality IS spiritual. It is about faith in humanity and faith in their native potential for awareness/awakening. I can see how Magon would see that part as belief in "fairytales." I explain this aspect to you, HK, because I think of all on RWED, you might understand what I mean by "spiritual" morality best.

It's complicated. Maybe we are all a little bit right.


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Thursday, November 3, 2011 5:39 PM

1KIKI

Goodbye, kind world (George Monbiot) - In common with all those generations which have contemplated catastrophe, we appear to be incapable of understanding what confronts us.


Oh, Byte

One more thing before I OD on this - I suspect Frem wants to think that with only extremely rare exception problems that children have are the fault of the parents or society.

And it's true that this society treats its members like human raw material in the creation of even more wealth for the few wealthy - even children get treated this way.

But if you look at me, at WishIMay's husband, at you, at all the autistic children - it seems there is goodly percentage of children who are just (to a greater or lesser degree) born 'scrambled', into a society that doesn't yet know how to keep it from happening or what to do about it once it does. It's nobody's fault. Not theirs. Not mine. Not yours. Pretty obviously. I just wanted to highlight that. It might be worth remembering from time to time.

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Thursday, November 3, 2011 7:03 PM

BYTEMITE


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And then we have Byte declaring that she was "born without empathy or morality!" What the heck? Join the club, right? Does this all boil down to misunderstandings about how consciousness develops? Aye me.


I think so. I know what much of the current literature says, but I find it hard to believe that beings can be born with a known and developed morality center in their brains but that for ALL of them its not functional at all to begin with. Considering the rate of neural growth and development at that age, it seems unlikely and even impossible.

Really, it sounds more to me like psychologists researching lack of infant morality through studies have subconscious cultural expectations influencing them that they are unaware of - specifically, that of the Christian concept of original sin.

Personally, I'm much more interested in the phenomenon of low GABA levels and no infantile amnesia, and studies of infantile brain activity and reactions, than I am these persistent traditional ideas and speculations.

Specifically, my comments about myself is that my morality center existed, but was non-functional for chemical reasons, contrasted with my belief that moral centers in most infants are functional to at least some degree.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/09/magazine/09babies-t.html?pagewanted=
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Thursday, November 3, 2011 7:14 PM

MAGONSDAUGHTER


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Originally posted by HKCavalier:
I just call that "the truth" as best we humans have come to know it. But because I believe this, as it seems you do, I live in a fairytale universe? Really, really strange.

I think the major splitting point is not the values themselves, but where the values come from.

If you say most humans are born with certain values (not ALL values), you're living in a fairytale universe.

If you agree with her that humans are born with a value-free blank slate, and then internalize value systems from their environment only, you are scientifically literate and based in reality.

It doesn't seem to matter if one doesn't believe in fairies or fairytales, that one subscribes to the theory of evolution, and that one has stated that innate values exist because humans have evolved to be born with value-instincts (perhaps precisely because we are social creatures and certain value-instincts make us more likely to be accepted by our "pack").




Yes, I think you've nailed most of what I was trying to say. I note that you have moved from saying morals to values, by the way. I still think there is a distinction in meaning between the two.

And yes I do equate the idea of innate 'morals' or a fixed notion of right and wrong to be based in a fairytale concept of what it means to be human. I've explained my thinking around this a number of times.

"The Judeo/Christian religions see Man as being separate from other animals, a higher creature 'in God's image' and the whole concept of understanding good and evil. I don't accept any of these premises."

"I think the other thing that they could not tolerate was the idea that we were related in any way to apes. It also went against the view of the uniquesness of humanity and that we alone had been created in gods image. Evolution tells us that we are just another animal that has developed specialist traits in order to fill a niche. "

I might ask you whether you think animals have an innate sense of right or wrong? Do you think chimps have innate values. Chimps are social animals, they care for their young?

As far as I am concerned you can't believe in a little bit of evolution, like you can be a little bit pregnant. You can't cherry pick your belief system. You either believe that we are animals that have evolved certain characteristics, or your believe that we are somehow special and have certain innate qualities (and rights) that place us above other animals - 'in gods image' the traditional religious view.

At the basis of the 'opposing' view, I see that as being inherent
to what you believe, even if you are not overtly religious hence the fairy tale.

Edit - as I read down, I see you have demonstrated this in a later post

"By spirit/soul, I don't mean some religious aspect of self. Atheists feel spirit/soul too. I mean an awareness or awakening that goes beyond physical sensation or psychological understanding. Some might call it inspiration. Some might call it The Force. Some might call it an unconscious connection with nature. I don't really care how each individual chooses to describe it. We tend to feed this aspect with art, music, philosophy, religion/faith, or acts of kindness towards people/animals/nature.

I personally think that innate morality is seeded in both our physical brains and our spirits. That is, I believe there is innate morality in our hardware/neurology (neuroethics) as well as our need to be connected with the universe. Maybe the mind is more of the moral blank slate that is waiting to be filled by society, as Magon says. Maybe that is why we are filled with conflicts both internally and externally. Mind/social morality fighting with brain morality fighting with spiritual morality--multiplied by the number of individuals around us. "


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Thursday, November 3, 2011 7:23 PM

BYTEMITE


1kiki: definitely a possibility with me. I had noticeable differences from other children and very strong resistance to social norms even when I was two.

Magons, I don't believe there is much difference between humans and animals except in cases where differences have evolved - yet I also think most animals have at least some interest in preserving their young and also reaction with alarm and caution at the discovery of the slaughtered member of their own kind (though some animals, after some initial trepidation, might not let that meat go to waste).

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Thursday, November 3, 2011 8:28 PM

MAGONSDAUGHTER


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Hey Magonsdaughter,

You really do talk as if you and I have been hashing this out together for days, when I've barely talked to you or, honestly, read much of your contribution to this thread before you blasted me. I wasn't really fixated on your arguments. They seemed pretty tame, not much to argue with there (1kiki on the other hand...well). The distinctions you and Byte were trading back and forth just didn't move me. Really, my primary interest in what you've said in this thread are those occasions when you've completely misrepresented my thoughts and opinions. It's frustrating.



I get your frustration, because when I read your posts, that is what I see. someone who has misconstrued arguments. It seems apparent that you have not read my posts, even though you feel offended by them.

Your post after pages of discussion, some of it quite complex, most of it tangental was this -

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You *don't* think that. You *wouldn't* think that. And that's what gives CTS's argument credibility while your facile reversal is nonsense. Folks like CTS and Byte and I are trying to acknowledge that little elephant in the room. You are a moral person, Signy. Sorry to be the bearer of good news.

For all the talk in this thread about how violent and cruel and warlike human beings are, none of us here (that I know of) conform to that model. Even Raptor talks a good game, but he's as comfortably removed from the battle field as any of us. It's this fact that quietly supports CTS's argument and makes you sound schizoid--you're a thoroughly decent person somehow convinced that humans are naturally violent and cruel.



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I gotta tell ya: a lot of what you say here disgusts me/sickens me/freaks my shit out. The arrogance it reflects, the contempt for children it implies are disturbing. I can only hope you and I are misunderstanding one another in the biggest possible way. I offer my point of view in the hope that you might have just a moment or two of self-reflection, if only to refute me.


I'm kind of bemused that you berate ME for being insulting and dismissve because I used the term 'spout'. Kind of
astonishing. I know they weren't posts directed at me, but if I wonder if you have heard kettle - pot -black etc

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Why you feel the need to tell me that you never said that anyone enjoys being raped or murdered, I just don't know. And so what if ya did? There are people who have enjoyed both. How is that germane?


Because you said
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Can we even agree that, barring some kind of maladaptive weirdness or dastardly intervention, human creatures do not themselves enjoy being murdered and/or raped?
Didn't you? It was a response to what you said. How am I misreading this?

It had been the argument in some posts that because humans didn't enjoy being murdered or raped or having their family friends murdered and raped that this demonstrated an innate morality. I've disagreed with this. No species on this planet enjoys death or pain.

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The interesting question to my mind is: can we say that such enjoyment is unhealthy, or "wrong" in some objective sense, or is all just cultural? To me, it's kind of a no-brainer--of course we can, naturally. But, my sense from what's been said in this thread is that folks on your side of this discussion would feel obligated to make all kinds of qualifying statements to the effect that, ultimately, there is no objectively unhealthy (wrong) thing in this world.

I can understand that as a scientist in the laboratory that kind of neutrality and skepticism of all truths could be very useful, laudable, but to espouse such "know-nothingism" in our actual lives seems kinda nutty.



So its okay to call my beliefs nutty, but I can't call yours fairytales. You certainly win the award for hypocracy on this thread.

As for the opposing arguments, there has been lots and LOTS of moaning about how disturbing the views of myself and others are, how utilitatian, amoral, coldly characterised, lacking in humanity, devoid of feeling, unsettling, sterile in tone, unfeeling, lacking in empathy, cold and foreboding.... just to name a few. Seems that the argument about values not being inherent generates more emotive responses that rational discussion on this thread.


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You seem to say that you have your cultural biases and you like them and live by them, but if you don't think those biases are "true" in some larger sense, why would you hold to them?


Because they are MY values. They are what I have learnt from my family and my society. They are part of who I am. Saying that, it is possible for people to make huge shifts in what they believe and how they live their life but I think its hard to break away completely from those core beliefs - beliefs that you were raised with.
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This kind of misreading drives me nuts. Basic reading comprehension. I never said it was "ONLY" a human phenomenon. If I'd wanted to say that, I coulda said that. I'm talking about humans as animals, among other animals, other animals that suffer mental disturbances. I was suggesting that humans both suffer from a lot more and more complicated derangements and we seem to be pretty well-suited to weathering our psychic storms, oddly enough. We can tolerate a whole lot o' crazy and keep on keeping on. Other animals, not so much. A lot of animals simply die in the kind of "captivity" we take for granted in our modern lives.


More kettle pot - black stuff from you, seeing as your comprehension skills have been pretty shit on this thread. I'd also say prove it that humans suffer from more and more complicated derangements and that we whether 'psychic storms' whatever that means better than animals. I'd actually really ask, what is your freaking point here?

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This part here is entirely sensible, and congruent with my own thoughts on the matter. But I gotta say that you do seem to suggest that there is a natural right and wrong way for humans to live and that's all I've been suggesting.

Having common behaviours/needing certain conditions to survive and do well and an innate moral compass is quite different.

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I don't know how to begin unraveling the multi-faceted misunderstanding of my position you have there in that sentence. Not talking about any "fairytale universe," just this one here. Just suggesting that concepts of right and wrong have their basis in reality.


A suggestion I've refuted for about 4 pages now. Hon, we don't agree.

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I hardly know what to make of this conclusion of yours. I wonder how you get here from what you said above (emphasis mine): "Being a social species means we SHOULD BE living together and caring for our young together. Social isolation and disconnection and poor parenting by inexperienced, isolated and disconnected parents IS A MAJOR CONTRIBUTOR to mental illness. And UNFORTUNATELY that doens't impinge on our ability to have babies but it does HAVE A MAJOR IMPACT on our functioning as a society and I believe we see a lot of the result of that now." You use a lot of valuing language that suggests that there's something kinda-sorta objective about what humans should and shouldn't be doing with ourselves. That's all I've ever meant to say. I just call that "the truth" as best we humans have come to know it. But because I believe this, as it seems you do, I live in a fairytale universe? Really, really strange.


Again, do you believe that dogs or chimps have an innate morality because they have certain behaviours and needs, because they thrive in certain conditions and pine and die in others? Is that what you would call it.

Humans have certain needs must met in order to survive and thrive. They include physiological, emotional and psychological needs. So as a species we have evolved to live a certain way and at a fundamental level we do best if we live closest to that way. But we are also able to adapt to a wide range of environements and probably most significantly adapt those environments. Our societies and and how we have structured them have widely varied over our existence.

Some examples -
we all feel the same sexual urges, but attitudes around what is acceptable expression of those urges varies.
It takes one male and one female to produce a baby, but how that baby is then raised will vary.


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Thursday, November 3, 2011 8:48 PM

1KIKI

Goodbye, kind world (George Monbiot) - In common with all those generations which have contemplated catastrophe, we appear to be incapable of understanding what confronts us.


"Personally, I'm much more interested in the phenomenon of low GABA levels ..."

I think it might be more about being born deeply depressed along with having a responsive system. When you have no sense of comfort or security, no happiness, no internal peace, it's hard to be positively motivated, or to be positively engaged. Children who are depressed tend to behave meaninglessly badly (the word nihilisticly comes to mind).


While Wall St. is going through the roof, Main St. is paying all the bills.

Remember when teachers, public employees, Planned Parenthood, NPR and PBS crashed the stock market, wiped out half of our 401Ks, took trillions in taxpayer funded bailouts, spilled oil in the Gulf of Mexico, gave themselves billions in bonuses, and paid no taxes?

Yeah, me neither....

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Friday, November 4, 2011 6:56 AM

BYTEMITE


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It had been the argument in some posts that because humans didn't enjoy being murdered or raped or having their family friends murdered and raped that this demonstrated an innate morality. I've disagreed with this. No species on this planet enjoys death or pain.



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Again, do you believe that dogs or chimps have an innate morality because they have certain behaviours and needs, because they thrive in certain conditions and pine and die in others? Is that what you would call it.



Simply, yes. Enjoyment versus pain/suffering/harship, or lack thereof, and the projection of that generating a neurological sympathetic (empathic) response is often the primary measurement of whether destructive acts are considered right or wrong. And the understanding of right and wrong is what determines whether morality is present in the subject.

What cultures think that the person who ENJOYS rape or murder is a good and innately moral person? They might accept such behaviour towards the hypothetical "Other" but it immediately becomes unacceptable and immoral behaviour when targeted towards members of their own culture.

I very much recommend reading the article I posted, it may help you understand my position better.

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Friday, November 4, 2011 7:42 AM

CANTTAKESKY


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Originally posted by Magonsdaughter:
You either believe that we are animals that have evolved certain characteristics, or your believe that we are somehow special and have certain innate qualities (and rights) that place us above other animals - 'in gods image' the traditional religious view.

I absolutely believe both.

You can tell me I "can't" do it. But the fact is, I'm doing it.

Now to clarify, I don't believe we are "above" other animals. We are simply more conscious of certain unique characteristics of our own species, more so than of other species.

But yes, I believe other animals were evolved to have innate morality as well.

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Friday, November 4, 2011 8:28 AM

CANTTAKESKY


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Originally posted by Bytemite:
I very much recommend reading the article I wrote, it may help you understand my position better.

Excellent and fascinating article. Thank you.

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Friday, November 4, 2011 9:15 AM

BYTEMITE


Um, heh, I didn't "write" that article, merely posted it. Sorry about that, some kind of slip. I edited my previous post.

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Friday, November 4, 2011 11:15 AM

CANTTAKESKY


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Originally posted by BYTEMITE:
Um, heh, I didn't "write" that article, merely posted it. Sorry about that, some kind of slip. I edited my previous post.

Haha. I knew you meant "the article I wrote about." Didn't think your real name was Paul Bloom. ;)

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Friday, November 4, 2011 5:28 PM

1KIKI

Goodbye, kind world (George Monbiot) - In common with all those generations which have contemplated catastrophe, we appear to be incapable of understanding what confronts us.


"... the word nihilistically* comes to mind."


Just a random comment. I always like it when I find a word about something distressing that seems to be an exact right fit for what I had in my mind. That's b/c it means someone has been there before, and made a word for it. I'm not alone, just one of a number who 'get' that word, like the word *nihilistically

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Friday, November 4, 2011 5:33 PM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


BTW- when I was a child, I was extremely empathetic. It pained me when others were unhappy. I would be happier giving something to you and seeing you happy than keeping it for myself and seeing you unhappy. I remember a few selected memories from before I could walk.

Our dad, who lived through a Siberian labor camp, used to tell us bits and pieces of what happened there. When I was little.. five, six, or seven... I realized that I would never be able to make the kinds of moral life-and-death decisions that he did, like: who gets the blanket, who gets the food, who stays close to the fire? I also realized that when he said he loved us, he did.... but that he also needed us as goal, an emotional life-raft, somewhere to direct his energies and keep him afloat. I was quiet, observant, and compliant- a follower, not an instigator. And overall, I was happy.

My identical twin, tho, was a whole 'nother story.

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Friday, November 4, 2011 5:43 PM

BYTEMITE


Wow.

Your dad went through quite a lot, Sig.

It's also interesting to hear what people were like as kids.

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Friday, November 4, 2011 6:34 PM

CANTTAKESKY


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Originally posted by SignyM:
My identical twin, tho, was a whole 'nother story.

Would that be Rue? Just wondering. Hehe.


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Sunday, November 6, 2011 9:40 PM

RIONAEIRE

Beir bua agus beannacht


Wow Signe, you have a twin, that's cool. What is she like?

Kiki, I think I have more respect for you now as a result of this thread.

I told my dad about the debate in this thread and then told him where I stand: That the only morals/values humans innately have are the ability to love and the desire to seek and the rest, the more specific things, are learnt. He thought about it, he ran through different civilizations and how different they all have been but how they all have these constants, then agreed with me. I notice no one has tried to argue against my position. I guess I'm inbetween Byte and Magon's, in the middle.

"A completely coherant River means writers don't deliver" KatTaya

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Monday, November 7, 2011 8:02 PM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


Due to several life-decisions, my identical twin is both smarter and nicer than I am, now.

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Tuesday, November 8, 2011 4:32 PM

RIONAEIRE

Beir bua agus beannacht


Well you know that identical twin studies are everyone's favorites because the genetics are the same so any difference is going to be from nurture or life circumstances and choices. And often twins, growing up at the same time and all, are raised more similarly than other siblings since they're going through the same stuff at the same time and the parents haven't changed during elapsed time the way it happens with siblings etc.

Does she have a Viking style name too? (although its likely Signe isn't your real name)



"A completely coherant River means writers don't deliver" KatTaya

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Wednesday, November 9, 2011 12:25 PM

SIGNYM

I believe in solving problems, not sharing them.


No, not much like me at all, except a whole lot smarter and... as time has gone on... nicer. Life beat the "nice" out of me and into her, maybe. NOTHING is going to beat the smarts into me tho!

Signy is a name I grabbed out of Downbelow Station by CJ Cherryh, which had a number of interesting parallels with Firefly.
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The book is set in Cherryh's Alliance-Union universe during the Company Wars period, specifically late 2352 and early 2353. The book details events centering on a space station in orbit around Pell's World (also known as "Downbelow") in the Tau Ceti star system. The station serves as the transit point for ships moving between the Earth and Union sectors of the galaxy.

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Wednesday, November 9, 2011 7:08 PM

1KIKI

Goodbye, kind world (George Monbiot) - In common with all those generations which have contemplated catastrophe, we appear to be incapable of understanding what confronts us.


I suspect you're nice enough.

When I was younger and on rotation and also working, I wasn't very nice at all - even less nice than now, if you can imagine. I was too tired. My attitude was - you better get out of my way 'cause I don't have the energy to go around you. Anything that wasn't directly related to me doing what I needed to do in the shortest amount of time with the least energy possible wasn't worth noticing.

I think you're just tired, or maybe have too much on your plate.

And if being smart consists of having a unique perspective and asking extremely interesting questions that get to the heart of a topic, you're smart enough. IMO.


Non corundum illegitimi!


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